BDSM toys for men
BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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Robust black handcuffs with metal strap and adjustable length Darkness Wrist Handcuffs Black. A comfortable metal buckle ensures a comfortable grip. Made of artificial leather. Hand sewn. Experience passionate moments of excitement to the full.
Each feather is unique. The wand with a feather measures a full 42 cm. Feather tickling is a popular activity among people. Pleasant feeling of passing a small pass around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion.
The new item is the stylish Fetish Boss Series Studs Collar with sharp spikes. Length 36 - 42 cm. Height 2 cm. You will feel a firm imitation of leather on your neck. It has a loop in the front for catching the leash. Light bondage, roleplay, petplay
The new item is the stylish Fetish Boss Series Collar Silver Crystals with sparkling stones. Length 36 - 42 cm. Height 2 cm. On your neck you will feel the firm imitation leather, In the front it has a loop for catching the leash. Light bondage, role
Fetish Submissive BED BINDING SET contains two pieces of belts and four pieces of handcuffs. The belts have staples at the ends. The handcuffs can be adjusted to a length from 24 cm to up to 36 cm. They are made of vegan leather.
Belt bondage consisting of 4 pieces of movement restraints. Tie up your bitch and do whatever you want with her. Choose your location and start experimenting today.
Would you like a proper leather whip? One that will really hurt? The Zado Single Tail Leather Whip takes care of that with all its beauty. Black whip for SM practitioners.
Bijoux Pour Toi Collar Heart leather collar. A beautiful design that will stand out in your collection. Get this nice and practical collar for your erotic games! Be a naughty kitty, but expect your master to tame you quickly!
EasyToys Flogger With Metal Grip Whip with faux leather fringes. The whip is 38 cm long. The metal handle fits perfectly in the hand and does not slip. Faux leather tassels ensure a painful and satisfying experience. A must-have toy for all BDSM enth
Robust set of BDSM erotic tools EasyToys Leather Collar With Handcuffs. Set includes handcuffs and imitation leather collar. They are connected together by a metal chain. Collar length 45-58 cm. Length of handcuffs 11-28 cm. Creates an atmosphere and increases sexual pleasure.
How often do you experiment with new ways to please your partner? Our little centimeter is the perfect tool for discovering new erotic experiences.
The Octane Crystal Collar is designed to be not only beautiful, but also comfortable. Soft materials and precise workmanship ensure a perfect fit.
The Octane Crystal Collar is designed to be not only beautiful, but also comfortable. Soft materials and precise workmanship ensure a perfect fit.
Elegance is when external beauty is a reflection of internal harmony. Cottelli Lace Mask with fine lace will add a touch of mystery and elegance to your look. Add a little luxury to your life.
Did you know that the right dilator can completely change your experience? Our product offers 7 quiet vibration rhythms that you can easily control with one button. Start discovering new sensations right out of the box.
Did you know that Bondage Tape does not stick to skin or hair? It is made of 100% polyvinyl chloride. This means that you can experiment without worrying about unpleasant tearing or pain. Safety and comfort in the first place!
The best toys are those that don't hurt and don't require an instructional video. Soft silicone handcuffs - no germs, no bruises, just fun for two.
100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.
Discover a paddle with a sturdy handle and a wide head, which distributes the energy over a larger surface area and allows for a smooth transition from gentle tapping to very intense, wide-area stimulation.
The ball gag from the Devil Sticks range is a tried-and-tested BDSM classic that reliably restricts communication to muffled moans, leaving you in full control of the situation.
Safety and comfort can go hand in hand. Our polyamide, ABS and metal products are designed to provide maximum comfort and longevity.
Gentle on the skin, uncompromising to boredom - discover your favourite handcuffs that guarantee completely safe and relaxed fun thanks to their soft cover and quick release even without a key.
Every element of this set is designed with comfort and safety in mind. With this set, every touch will be a story of passion and excitement.
Did you know that covering your head can increase the sensitivity of other senses? The Spandex 3-Hole Hood lets you experience touches, sounds and smells more intensely.
How much do you trust your partner? Try to cover your eyes and ears and let yourself be guided only by touch.
Beautiful cuffs with provocative red plush for a more comfortable feeling during restraint. The cuffs won’t press as much, and red is the color of provocation, so you certainly won’t go wrong if you also buy other accessories for S/M play in this or...
Our handcuffs are covered in soft plush to ensure maximum comfort. No more pressure or discomfort.
The rope is designed to be durable, ensuring that you can focus on the game without worry. The rope allows you to explore new techniques and take your experience to the next level.
Turn every night into an adventure without worrying about the mess. Our easy-to-clean PVC sheet is the secret key to endless nights of joy. Perfect for those who want comfort and passion without compromise.
Excitement, but also comfort. Our Plush Handcuffs offer you both. Explore new frontiers in your intimacy with confidence and style.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.