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BDSM toys for men
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BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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A ticklish mini Erosstar package. The exclusive handcuffs are complemented by a feather tickler. A beautiful addition to a sexy outfit, but also a playful romp in the bedroom.
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TABOOM stimulation wheel from the Essentials collection. All-metal spiked wheel to indulge in a new type of stimulation. Please your sub with painful but also ticklish pleasure. Just push a little.
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3,80 €
Delicate shimmering feather with wand. Playful treatment and pleasant feelings of intimate excitement. Twilight length 28 cm. A pleasant feeling around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion and arousing the right atmosphere.
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7,80 €
Sinner Gear long silicone dilator with practical loop for handling. Total length 16 cm. Dilator diameter 5 mm. An elegant dilator with a stimulating body. Elastic and flexible. Pleasant to the touch. The waves create a pleasant stimulation.
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Stimulation wheel in silver Sinner Gear Pinwheel 1-Wheel. Total length including grip is 17 cm. Made of high quality stainless steel (nickel-free). A firm grip that does not slip and holds naturally. Very sharp spikes.
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Was your partner naughty? This toy is a must-have for punishing him/her badly! Both the handle and the tassel are made of leather for a more stylish look.
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Bold ankle harness made from cow leather and metal, featuring adjustable straps and a 7.5 cm roller instead of a heel. A striking silver fetish accessory for dramatic styling and power play.
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Bold ankle harness made from cow leather and metal, featuring adjustable straps and a 7.5 cm roller instead of a heel. A striking rose gold fetish accessory for dramatic styling and power play.
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Handmade shibari-style flogger whip in khaki with cotton strands, metal details, and a firm braided handle. Designed for confident grip, elegant bondage aesthetics, and sensual teasing or impact play.
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Bondage set with cuffs, gag and anal hook for softer BDSM play. Delivers hands-behind-back restraint, anal pressure, adjustable straps and a silicone gag ball with air holes for easier breathing.
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Luxurious 8-piece leather BDSM kit with gold details, including cuffs, mask, ball gag, flogger, nipple clamp, paddle, collar with leash, and a practical storage case.
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Premium 2-piece cocksling set made from Purio platinum-cured liquid silicone with an UltraSilk satin-smooth finish. Supports firmer erections, enhanced stamina, and longer playtime, with one glow-in-the-dark sling for added fun.
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A black BDSM cane made from beechwood and sheep leather. 60 cm length for confident reach and intensity control—from gentle caresses to sharp stings—ideal for obedience and D/s play.
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Complete 10-piece black BDSM set for couples: flogger, feather tickler, ball gag, blindfold, rope, collar with leash, wrist and ankle cuffs, nipple clamps, and a gift-ready box. Great for beginners and experienced users.
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Luxury leather flogger in white and pink with rose‑gold accents. Premium leather, braided handle for confident grip, 63 cm length. Part of the Fairy collection by Liebe Seele.
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Luxurious cow leather spanking paddle by Liebe Seele in wine red with rose-gold accents. Lightweight, easy to maneuver, and fitted with a hanging loop. Handmade for refined impact play. Length 32.5 cm.
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Lightweight leather flogger in white and pink with rose-gold accents. 44.5 cm length for easy, precise swings. Beginner-friendly and part of the Fairy Leather luxury collection.
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23,80 €
Luxurious goat leather paddle in white & pink with rose-gold accents. Lightweight, easy to maneuver, hanging loop. 32 cm length. Part of the colorful Fairy collection for stylish impact play.
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119,80 €
Premium real leather flogger in green with gold accents. Studded handle and wrist loop for secure swings. 81 cm length for teasing caresses to punishing strikes.
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Vegan leather paddle with pearl-accent handle, flexible head, and ergonomic grip. Lightweight, balanced, and ideal for teasing taps to firm impact. Includes storage bag.
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Adjustable electro cock cage with remote control, multiple e-stim patterns, and secure locking via padlock or numbered tags. Clear acrylic, conductive silicone, rechargeable. 11 cm total, 8 cm insertable.
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Three-row sensory pinwheel in stunning rose gold finish. High-quality nickel-free stainless steel. Perfect for sensory stimulation and all levels of BDSM play.
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Rose gold BDSM skin pinwheel with five rows of wheels, 17.5 cm long, nickel-free stainless steel, for tantalizing sensory play and precise stimulation.
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The Wartenberg Stimulating Wheel is on its way from a medical tool to a toy loved in BDSM.
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The Wartenberg Stimulating Wheel is on its way from a medical tool to a toy loved in BDSM.
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15,80 €
The Wartenberg Stimulating Wheel is on its way from a medical tool to a toy loved in BDSM.
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15,80 €
The Wartenberg Stimulating Wheel is on its way from a medical tool to a toy loved in BDSM.
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47,80 €
More pleasure for both? Put it on and enjoy double penetration, more intense vaginal sex or vibrations on the testicles.
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Give yourself a long erection and a more intense sexual experience. Vibrating cock ring with 10 modes. Super toy for couples.
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A supplement for more beautiful sex. The elastic penis and finger sleeve ensures more intense penetration.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.
