Sex bonding is a form of BDSM in which one person binds their partner in a sexual position or also in self-bondage. The process can be as simple or complex as the couple wishes. Some positions in this form of practice are variations of doggy style or missionary positions, while others are more athletic and require special equipment.
Bondage is used in sexual practices that fall under BDSM. The acronym stands for slavery and discipline, dominance and subordination, and last but not least, sadism and masochism.
Although these words can provoke a shudder of fear in some people, there is nothing to fear. Everyone really enjoys these games to the right extent.
Don't let prejudices spoil your chance to have fun!
How to practice bondage
1. No bondage with a stranger
Many experts recommend that you do not just engage in bondage and slave games with just about anyone. Trust comes first, find someone you can trust and truly commit to.
2. Take the first step
One of the many reasons individuals put off binding and exciting games is because they are afraid to talk about them. Does it attract you? Say it! Confide in your dear half and you may find that you have the same tastes and desires.
3. Trust and communication is key
The best place to start is a bedroom or other space where you feel comfortable and relaxed. You need to feel completely safe and in good hands. Communicate together! Tell him what you like and what you don't. You will surely find common and irresistibly exciting limits together.
4. Less means more
If you and your partner are starting to bond during sex, don't rush. Start with simple practices and positions. You can always repeat it and tighten up a bit with each attempt.
5. Try different tools and toys
Are you tempted to have your eyes blindfolded? Tying hands? Leg bondage? Whatever it is, get tools made of quality material. It is not always possible to replace quality tying erotic equipment with what you find at home. In some cases, poor quality material can cause unpleasant injuries.
Bondage during sex
You can participate in all elements of BDSM. Many of them overlap, but just choose what you find tempting. It's all up to you and your partner.
In all cases, however, both mental and physical discipline are important. And what are the positions that every beginner can handle?
Spooning: In the spooning bondage position, also known as the rag doll position, the back partner's arms are tied in front of the person lying in front.
Bed restraint: This form of slavery involves a person being handcuffed to a bed. Often using rope or handcuffs. Tied to the bed in this way, you can take various positions, most of which are suitable for foreplay or vibrator stimulation.
Hogtie: This name is a practice in which the hands and feet are tied together at one point.
Frogtie: In this position, the submissive person has his ankles strapped to his hind thighs. The hands are tied to each other behind his or her back.
Tying to a chair: A chair with a high back is required to perform this position. The submissive person sits on a chair and has his ankles tied to his feet from the chair while the arms are tied behind the backrest. This gives the dominant the opportunity to ride on a partner.
Basic terminology
If you want to be proficient or proficient in using the basic terms used in bondage, we will introduce you to the most important ones.
Rope bunny: A person who likes to be restricted in movement, tied up, or otherwise immobile during sexual intercourse. Usually a submissive partner.
Rigger: Rigger is a role in BDSM. This is someone who likes to tie other individuals with a rope. Rigger's style varies from person to person.
Switch: A person who finds pleasure and satisfaction in both a dominant and submissive role.
Dungeon: Also known as a playground. Equipped place where various BDSM activities are performed.
Japanese bondage
If you are looking for inspiration and you are interested in what bdsm bondage looks like at the highest level, be sure to look at the Shibari technique.
This Japanese bondage means decorative binding. It is a form of rope tying that originated in Japan and dates back to the seventeenth century.
Shibari includes a rope made of jute or hemp and is considered an aesthetically pleasing form of BDSM. This type of exciting art will surely interest you at first sight!
Want to read more about Shibari? All the information you might be interested in can be found in the article on Shibari.