BDSM toys for men
over 27 cm (XXL)
BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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Delicate shimmering feather with wand. Playful treatment and pleasant feelings of intimate excitement. Twilight length 28 cm. A pleasant feeling around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion and arousing the right atmosphere.
Experience your fantasy kinky with the TABOOM Bondage Rope. High quality solid mooring rope with a fine surface. A nice start to the BDSM world of bonding. Suitable for beginners and experienced. Length 10 meters, ⌀ 7 mm.
Strong hemp rope on Shibari with 3 resistant cores. EasyToys Hemp Bondage Rope with a total length of 10 meters. Made purely of natural materials. Load capacity up to 200 kg. Fray-proof closed ends.
Was your partner naughty? This toy is a must-have for punishing him/her badly! Both the handle and the tassel are made of leather for a more stylish look.
Easytoys Fetish Collection Leather Collar fixed collar made of imitation leather. The black robust design of the collar commands respect. Can be adjusted to a length from 35 to 53 cm. Includes a leash on a long steel chain. Endless erotic possibiliti
Lightweight and flexible mini crop whip with a patterned handle for secure control. Vegan-friendly construction, red and black styling, and intense teasing sensation make it a striking accessory for sensual BDSM play.
Stylish 55 cm riding crop made from vegan organosilicon PU with a patterned handle, wrist loop, and nickel-free metal details for secure grip, precise control, and seductive BDSM play.
Adjustable metal and PU choker with a cat ear hoop and bell. A seductive BDSM accessory for playful roleplay and intimate styling.
A black BDSM cane made from beechwood and sheep leather. 60 cm length for confident reach and intensity control—from gentle caresses to sharp stings—ideal for obedience and D/s play.
Luxurious real leather collar with leash and D-rings for BDSM and puppy play. Fully adjustable and durable.
Black leather choker with gold SLUT letters, fully adjustable, designed for both beginners and advanced users. Stylish and erotic statement accessory.
Natural jute rope designed for Shibari and Japanese bondage, 5 meters long, 6mm thick, perfect for both beginners and advanced users.
Natural jute rope designed for Shibari and Japanese bondage, 10 meters long, 6mm thick, perfect for both beginners and advanced users.
Electro shock cane for dominating control
Experience control with the Hidden Desire Electroshock Paddle for soothing and intense sensations.
The perfect urethral stimulator Vanilla Glide is just for those who want to experience the unique sensation of a massage from the inside.
The perfect urethral stimulator Vanilla Glide is just for those who want to experience the unique sensation of a massage from the inside.
The perfect urethral stimulator Vanilla Glide is just for those who want to experience the unique sensation of a massage from the inside.
The perfect urethral stimulator Vanilla Glide is just for those who want to experience the unique sensation of a massage from the inside.
A set of pegs in the penis. Urethral dilation for lovers of firm erections and extra stimulation. Pleasant silicone.
A lightweight wand that really hurts. Rattan whip with hand-wrapped genuine cow leather handle.
The perfect set for deeper pleasure. 30 cm penis dilators with different diameters. Start slowly and gradually add more!
The perfect set for deeper pleasure. 30 cm penis dilators with different diameters. Start slowly and gradually add more!
Beautiful and exciting, with just the right touch of luxury. Sensual peacock feathers from the DONA by TABOOM collection.
A real reward and punishment! Leather reprimands with solid wood grip. The grip can also be used as a dildo. It's up to you which of these the sub deserves.
It sparks, pops loudly and pinches nicely. An electric rod to punish your naughty slave. Just choose where you put this sparking toy.
An addition to the collection for experienced dominants and submissives. A metal expansion rod with a pair of handcuffs to achieve a tight handcuff. Adjustable extension rod length 60 to 104 cm.
Beautiful and elegant: an exciting centimeter from TABOOM. Long turkey feather in black color with metal handle. This is called luxury and pleasure. The total length of the centipede is 44 cm.
An addition to the collection for experienced dominants and submissives. A metal expansion rod with a pair of handcuffs to achieve a tight handcuff. Adjustable extension rod length 60 to 104 cm.
Strong metal construction, firm grip of 4 handcuffs. An unforgettable sexy experience with the INTOYOU stretch rod. Up to 4 attached handcuffs can be attached to the metal rod via staples.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.