BDSM toys for men in stock
BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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Sexy spectacle of a perfectly submissive counterpart. The bondage cross will show you new pleasures of play possibilities.
An addition to the collection for experienced dominants and submissives. A metal expansion rod with a pair of handcuffs to achieve a tight handcuff. Adjustable extension rod length 60 to 104 cm.
Stylish bondage kit Rosy Gold. You will experience unforgettable moments in luxury. Everything you need to get started with BDSM is in this set. There are 9 toys you won't be able to resist.
Discover new corners of erotic games with the You2Toys Love Swing hanging love swing. Swing into a vortex of pleasure.
Black leather choker with gold SLUT letters, fully adjustable, designed for both beginners and advanced users. Stylish and erotic statement accessory.
Metal penis cage featuring a secure lock and ergonomic design for safe, long-lasting chastity. Ideal for beginners and experienced users in BDSM and fetish play.
All believers are blessed when you show up to the party in this 4-piece sexy nun costume.
Let yourself be seduced by your wild fantasies. Quality leather collar with bdsm leash. Inspired by the seductiveness of red wine.
Set yourself up nicely so he can put the collar on you. Take a peek into the darkness with a collar from the Dark Secret BDSM collection.
Pinker than bubblegum, that's how we like it! A beautiful vinyl dress that is a joy to wear. Available sizes S to 2XL.
An addition to the collection for experienced dominants and submissives. A metal expansion rod with a pair of handcuffs to achieve a tight handcuff. Adjustable extension rod length 60 to 104 cm.
Cool latex boxers with an unexpected twist - They have a large penis opening! Tight fetish boxers for men. 100% natural latex (thickness 0.4 mm). Available in sizes M to 2XL.
Strong metal construction, firm grip of 4 handcuffs. An unforgettable sexy experience with the INTOYOU stretch rod. Up to 4 attached handcuffs can be attached to the metal rod via staples.
Luxury leather flogger in white and pink with rose‑gold accents. Premium leather, braided handle for confident grip, 63 cm length. Part of the Fairy collection by Liebe Seele.
Comprehensive 13-piece leopard print BDSM starter kit including cuffs, gag, flogger, paddle, clamps, plug, and more. All items are adjustable and made from comfortable materials. Flexible and versatile.
A unique golden egg for couples filled with exciting toys and accessories. Enjoy love and passion on a new level.
In Japan, they know how to do it. Newcomers to the world of BDSM will be introduced to this pleasure-filled bondage set.
Strong erections and more intense anal stimulation. Penis ring with anal ball and stimulator for G-spot and clitoris.
Two larger pegs create a loop between your penis and anus through which the golden liquid flows. Both pins are made of high-quality stainless steel. A 62 cm long silicone tube is stretched between the two pegs.
Handmade shibari hogtie set in khaki with cotton rope and metal hardware. One size fits all, adjustable wrist and ankle openings, elegant design, and secure restraint for sensual bondage play.
Metal penis cage featuring a secure lock and ergonomic design for safe, long-lasting chastity. Ideal for beginners and experienced users in BDSM and fetish play.
An adventure for men from another universe. Anal balls rotate! For more pleasure, the ring clamps around the penis and testicles.
Enjoy full dominance. Bind your ankles with the heavenly goatskin BDSM Fairy by Liebe Seele collection.
A set of toys for a harder set. Ideal as a gift or for newcomers. Includes everything to get you into the world of light BDSM. The most used kinky toys for both.
Arkadio, wearable stimulator for him, filled with great pleasure. Your glans and the whole penis will go into orgasmic heaven. Plus, with the support of WatchMe technology.
Benedict is a ring with a vibrator: It will bring you to your knees! Double penis and testicle ring stimulates the area behind the testicles. It gives you 5+5 vibration modes. The pleasant ergonomic shape will pamper you.
Turn every night into an adventure without worrying about the mess. Our easy-to-clean PVC sheet is the secret key to endless nights of joy. Perfect for those who want comfort and passion without compromise.
Bold ankle harness made from cow leather and metal, featuring adjustable straps and a 7.5 cm roller instead of a heel. A striking silver fetish accessory for dramatic styling and power play.
Bold ankle harness made from cow leather and metal, featuring adjustable straps and a 7.5 cm roller instead of a heel. A striking rose gold fetish accessory for dramatic styling and power play.
Handmade shibari-style wrist-to-collar restraint with braided cotton rope, metal details, adjustable openings, and a one-size design for stylish and secure bondage play.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.