BDSM toys for men
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BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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Fetish dog head mask. Made of very comfortable neoprene. The surface is smooth in a semi-matte jacket. One size universal size. Detachable nose. Dog mask with ears and snout.
Fetish dog head mask. Made of very comfortable neoprene. The surface is smooth in a semi-matte jacket. One size universal size. Detachable nose. Dog mask with ears and snout.
Expand your pleasure with a new toy. Penis and testicle ring with clitoris vibrator. Convenient control with remote control. Great toy for couples.
Expand your pleasure with a new toy. Penis and testicle ring with clitoris vibrator. Convenient control with remote control. Great toy for couples.
Benedict is a ring with a vibrator: It will bring you to your knees! Double penis and testicle ring stimulates the area behind the testicles. It gives you 5+5 vibration modes. The pleasant ergonomic shape will pamper you.
Treat yourself to new entertainment. Anal lock combines two exciting pleasures! Your growing erection will add to the intensity of anal pleasure. This toy is also vibrating (7 programs).
Let yourself be entertained in the performance of a penis sleeve with an anal plug. Anal lock Pretty Love Hercules combines two exciting toys! Your growing erection will add anal pleasure.
Solid metal penis cage, perfect chastity belt for men. A large metal ring around the testicles prevents the cage from being removed. It is placed on the flaccid penis over the testicles. Hole for urination, can be worn for a long time.
Premium erection ring. Great choice for achieving a firm erection. Enhances enjoyment thanks to greater blood flow to the penis. It acts as a sleeve for the penis and testicles and a dam massager. Diameter from 3.25 cm. Elastic. Silicone.
Premium erection ring. Penis ring from the VICEROY Premium Series collection. It will take care of an extra firm erection and stronger enjoyment. It acts as a sheath for the penis and testicles. Diameter from 3.25 cm. Elastic. Silicone.
Double erection ring from the VICEROY Premium Series collection. Better and firmer erections than with a regular ring. More intense enjoyment. Ring diameter from 3.25 cm. Elastic. Silicone penis ring.
Delicate shimmering feather with wand. Playful treatment and pleasant feelings of intimate excitement. Twilight length 28 cm. A pleasant feeling around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion and arousing the right atmosphere.
Delicate shimmering feather with wand. Playful treatment and pleasant feelings of intimate excitement. Twilight length 28 cm. A pleasant feeling around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion and arousing the right atmosphere.
Delicate shimmering feather with wand. Playful treatment and pleasant feelings of intimate excitement. Twilight length 28 cm. A pleasant feeling around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion and arousing the right atmosphere.
Fetish dog head mask. Made of very comfortable neoprene. The surface is smooth in a semi-matte jacket. One size universal size. Detachable nose. Dog mask with ears and snout.
Fetish dog head mask. Made of very comfortable neoprene. The surface is smooth in a semi-matte jacket. One size universal size. Detachable nose. Dog mask with ears and snout.
2in1 erection ring for penis and testicles. Boners premium line for men. Firm erection with the greatest comfort. Penis ring diameter from 3 cm, testicle diameter from 3.8 cm. Elastic. Silicone ring.
2in1 erection ring for penis and testicles. Boners premium line for men. Firm erection with the greatest comfort. Penis ring diameter from 3 cm, testicle diameter from 3.8 cm. Elastic. Silicone ring.
Silicone testicle harness from the BONERS collection. Divide your testicles through the strap. Large diameter range from 4 to 5.5 cm. Adjustable tightening. Elastic. Waterproof.
Get to know the deepest, most intimate corners of your body with a set of dilators in the penis. Silicone dilators with different diameters (max 8 mm). Length 30 cm. They have a corrugated wall and are flexible. Start slowly and add gradually!
Hogtie And Cuffs tying set with tying cross and 4 handcuffs. Robust, with metal strap and adjustable length. Made of vegan leather. Experience passionate moments of excitement to the fullest with the Fetish Submissive bondage kit.
Robust black cuffs with metal strap and adjustable length. A high-quality metal buckle will ensure a comfortable grip. Made of vegan leather. Experience passionate moments of excitement to the fullest with Fetish Submissive cuffs.
Silicone chastity belt on the penis. The Lola Games Party Hard brand brings a matte cage in black. Romello is included in a set with keys and locks. Effectively prevents penile erection!
The Fetish Addict series of erotic toys came with a silicone gag. The 4 cm wide ball with breathing holes will delight many fans of hard fun. The length of the strap is up to 51 cm. The buckle ensures comfort.
Do you need to revive a slowly declining love affair? Just untie yourself and bring a little variation to everyday sex. A 9-piece set to spice up sex with a little light BDSM and other toys. GRAY BOX offers something for her, for him and for both!
Cock ring and ball stretcher = Boners Liquid Silicone 2in1 Ballstretcher. Boners Premium Line for Men. Rock-solid erection and maximum comfort. Smaller ring diameter from 2.5 cm, larger from 3 cm. Silicone (elastic). Bigger and firmer penis - fast.
2in1 cock ring and ball stretcher Boners Cocksling. Boners Premium Line for Men. Rock-solid erection and maximum comfort. Penis ring diameter 3.5 cm, testicles diameter 4 cm. TPE (elastic). Bigger and firmer penis.
7-piece Bad Kitty Restraint Set Bonding Set. Ideal starter pack to the world of BDSM, bondage and fetish for newbies. Length adjustable. Handcuffs, mask, swatters, collar, gag. Imitation leather.
Stimulation wheel in silver Sinner Gear Pinwheel 1-Wheel Silver. Total length including grip is 17 cm. Made of high quality stainless steel (nickel-free). A firm grip that does not slip and holds naturally. Very sharp spikes.
Silicone toy for playful dogs and females. The gag is made of harmless silicone (phthalate-free). Dimensions 14.8 x 2.5 cm. The gag in the shape of a bone is attached by a solid strap. Two dimensions included. Waterproof.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.