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BDSM toys for men
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BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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The rope is designed to be durable, ensuring that you can focus on the game without worry. The rope allows you to explore new techniques and take your experience to the next level.
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The rope is designed to be durable, ensuring that you can focus on the game without worry. The rope allows you to explore new techniques and take your experience to the next level.
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11,80 €
Our rope is designed to be durable, ensuring you can focus on the game without worry. The rope allows you to explore new techniques and take your experience to the next level.
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19,80 €
Turn every night into an adventure without worrying about the mess. Our easy-to-clean PVC sheet is the secret key to endless nights of joy. Perfect for those who want comfort and passion without compromise.
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55,80 €
Turn every night into an adventure without worrying about the mess. Our easy-to-clean PVC sheet is the secret key to endless nights of joy. Perfect for those who want comfort and passion without compromise.
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15,80 €
In a sado-masochistic game, the Leather Whip is more than a prop; he is a key player. With its help, you can conduct the orchestra of a symphony of pleasure and pain, and control the pace for unforgettable experiences.
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19,80 €
Try a new dimension of closeness with our Belt Bondage Set. Discover how excitement and confidence can bring your bedroom to life. Ready to explore?
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17,96 €
Curiosity in the bedroom can lead to unexpected heights of intimacy. Our handcuffs are designed for safe and comfortable play that will bring you and your partner closer together.
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27,80 €
A compact locking cage for discreet restraint under clothing. This pink ABS design offers 2 cm usable length, a flat profile and four ring sizes for a closer fit.
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35,80 €
A long locking cage in lightweight ABS plastic for discreet control play. It has an 11 cm total length, 9 cm usable length, and four ring size options for a closer fit.
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27,80 €
Take full control of your lover. Eye mask from the heavenly collection of BDSM accessories Fairy by Liebe Seele in goatskin leather.
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17,96 €
Beautiful colours and strong binding... Let yourself be tied by your beloved counterpart and experience your kinky fantasies. Length 7.5 m, ⌀ 5 mm.
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Beautiful colours and strong binding... Let yourself be tied by your beloved counterpart and experience your kinky fantasies. Length 7.5 m, ⌀ 5 mm.
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19,80 €
Coercion for your sub? It forces him to open his mouth and let you listen to his moans. Throat fuck allowed! Solid metal donut gag with adjustable length. Deluxe Edition!
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Benedict is a ring with a vibrator: It will bring you to your knees! Double penis and testicle ring stimulates the area behind the testicles. It gives you 5+5 vibration modes. The pleasant ergonomic shape will pamper you.
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11,80 €
Experience your fantasy kinky with the TABOOM bond rope. High quality mooring rope with a rough surface. Suitable for the experienced Japanese Shibari. 100% natural hemp rope, length 5 meters, ⌀ 7 mm.
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Experience your fantasy kinky with the TABOOM Bondage Rope. High quality solid mooring rope with a fine surface. A nice start to the BDSM world of bonding. Suitable for beginners and experienced. Length 5 meters, ⌀ 7 mm.
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11,80 €
Experience your fantasy kinky with the TABOOM Bondage Rope. High quality solid mooring rope with a fine surface. A nice start to the BDSM world of bonding. Suitable for beginners and experienced. Length 5 meters, ⌀ 7 mm.
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15,80 €
Discover the true beauty of the art of tying techniques with the Darkness SHIBARI Linen Rope. The bondage rope is made of purely natural materials. Unique texture specific to this type of rope. Total length 10 meters.
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15,80 €
Bijoux Pour Toi Collar Heart Padlock leather collar. A beautiful design that will stand out in your collection. Get this nice and practical collar for your erotic games! Be a naughty kitty, but expect your master to tame you quickly!
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27,80 €
The Liebe Seele handcuffs, with their exceptionally smooth surface, ensure a secure fit and complete surrender, without the risk of uncomfortable pressure marks or chafing on the wrists.
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Bold ankle harness made from cow leather and metal, featuring adjustable straps and a 7.5 cm roller instead of a heel. A striking silver fetish accessory for dramatic styling and power play.
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Elegant burgundy vegan collar with leash for bondage and couple play. Features iridescent PU, soft velvet lining, nickel-free rose gold hardware, and an adjustable 31–43 cm fit for stylish restraint.
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Elegant vegan burgundy wrist cuffs with a soft inner lining, rose gold hardware, and an adjustable 13.5–22 cm fit. A stylish bondage accessory for sensual, comfortable restraint play.
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Elegant vegan bondage blindfold in burgundy with an iridescent PU finish, plush velvet lining, rose gold hardware, and a fully adjustable fit for comfortable sensory play.
Bondage set with cuffs, gag and anal hook for softer BDSM play. Delivers hands-behind-back restraint, anal pressure, adjustable straps and a silicone gag ball with air holes for easier breathing.
Luxurious cow leather spanking paddle by Liebe Seele in wine red with rose-gold accents. Lightweight, easy to maneuver, and fitted with a hanging loop. Handmade for refined impact play. Length 32.5 cm.
Samurai-inspired leather collar with leash made from thick cowhide with copper-plated hardware. Adjustable 36.5–45.5 cm for secure, stylish restraint and roleplay.
The perfect urethral stimulator Vanilla Glide is just for those who want to experience the unique sensation of a massage from the inside.
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Kinky & Cute: A bondage suitcase with everything you need. BDSM equipment with bows. Made to faux leather.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.
