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BDSM toys for men
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BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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Metal plug for urethral stimulation. Made of stainless steel.
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Metal plug for urethral stimulation. Made of stainless steel.
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Metal plug for urethral stimulation. Made of stainless steel.
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Stainless steel urethral plug with an open end for unrestricted stimulation and fluid flow, suitable for experienced users.
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Stainless steel urethral plug with an open end for unrestricted stimulation and fluid flow, suitable for experienced users.
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Stainless steel urethral plug with an open end for unrestricted stimulation and fluid flow, suitable for experienced users.
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Fall in love with electro-shocks. Portable USB rechargeable power for your satisfaction.
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Experience control with the Hidden Desire Electroshock Paddle for soothing and intense sensations.
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19,80 €
A forked paddle will give you a slightly different feel than regular paddles. A spanking you'll both enjoy.
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If the classic spanking isn't enough. The surface is roped for more intense spanking.
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One spanking and he'll have a decal, just the way I like it... HOE! An ass spanking to show your love.
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Softer on one side and a little harder on the other. An ass spanking to show your love.
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119,80 €
A lightweight wand that really hurts. Rattan whip with hand-wrapped genuine cow leather handle.
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19,80 €
The Wartenberg Stimulating Wheel is on its way from a medical tool to a toy loved in BDSM.
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The Wartenberg Stimulating Wheel is on its way from a medical tool to a toy loved in BDSM.
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The Wartenberg Stimulating Wheel is on its way from a medical tool to a toy loved in BDSM.
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The Wartenberg Stimulating Wheel is on its way from a medical tool to a toy loved in BDSM.
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Push your limits: the Chastity Cock Cage gives you direct control over your partner's penis.
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LOCKDOWN penis cage made of high quality ABS plastic. Effectively prevents erection. The set includes several rings and locks with keys and more.
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35,80 €
LOCKDOWN penis cage made of high quality ABS plastic. Effectively prevents erection. The set includes several rings and locks with keys and more.
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35,80 €
LOCKDOWN penis cage made of high quality ABS plastic. Effectively prevents erection. The set includes several rings and locks with keys and more.
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19,80 €
Discover new corners of your sexuality. The combination of two gag toys and nipple clamps is the perfect sexy spectacle.
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Do you love tenderness, but also pain? The Stimulus Wheel must be part of your collection. Push harder and it will leave its mark on you. Great for pleasurable touch therapy.
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A real reward and punishment! Leather reprimands with solid wood grip. The grip can also be used as a dildo. It's up to you which of these the sub deserves.
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It sparks, pops loudly and pinches nicely. An electric rod to punish your naughty slave. Just choose where you put this sparking toy.
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Coercion for your sub? It forces him to open his mouth and let you listen to his moans. Throat fuck allowed! Solid metal donut gag with adjustable length. Deluxe Edition!
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An addition to the collection for experienced dominants and submissives. A metal expansion rod with a pair of handcuffs to achieve a tight handcuff. Adjustable extension rod length 60 to 104 cm.
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Spiked wheel for intimate stimulation TABOOM. The beautiful golden color evokes a feeling of luxury. Metal Spiked Wheel: Indulge your sub with painful or tickling pleasure. Just push a little.
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An addition to the collection for experienced dominants and submissives. A metal expansion rod with a pair of handcuffs to achieve a tight handcuff. Adjustable extension rod length 60 to 104 cm.
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Strong metal construction, firm grip of 4 handcuffs. An unforgettable sexy experience with the INTOYOU stretch rod. Up to 4 attached handcuffs can be attached to the metal rod via staples.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.
