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BDSM toys for men
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BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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This is really kinky! Gag your sub with a plug. You will only listen to his moans if you want to. Perfect gag made of PU leather and silicone. Extra nice, extra kinky!
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Coercion for your sub? It forces him to open his mouth and let you listen to his moans. Throat fuck allowed! Silicone donut gag with adjustable length.
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39,80 €
Expand your pleasure with a new toy. Penis and testicle ring with clitoris vibrator. Convenient control with remote control. Great toy for couples.
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Expand your pleasure with a new toy. Penis and testicle ring with clitoris vibrator. Convenient control with remote control. Great toy for couples.
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47,80 €
Treat yourself to new entertainment. Anal lock combines two exciting pleasures! Your growing erection will add to the intensity of anal pleasure. This toy is also vibrating (7 programs).
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27,80 €
Let yourself be entertained in the performance of a penis sleeve with an anal plug. Anal lock Pretty Love Hercules combines two exciting toys! Your growing erection will add anal pleasure.
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An attractive fashion accessory for your outfit. Suitable for everyday wear. Women's bondage harness around the neck. Sensual strips of polyester. One size fits all.
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An attractive fashion accessory for your outfit. Suitable for everyday wear. Women's bondage harness around the neck. Sensual strips of polyester. One size fits all.
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19,80 €
An attractive fashion accessory for your outfit. Suitable for everyday wear. Women's bondage harness around the neck. Sensual strips of polyester. One size fits all.
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An attractive fashion accessory for your outfit. Suitable for everyday wear. Women's bondage harness around the neck. Sensual strips of polyester. One size fits all.
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An attractive fashion accessory for your outfit. Suitable for everyday wear. Women's bondage harness around the neck. Sensual strips of polyester. One size fits all.
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Delicate shimmering feather with wand. Playful treatment and pleasant feelings of intimate excitement. Twilight length 28 cm. A pleasant feeling around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion and arousing the right atmosphere.
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Delicate shimmering feather with wand. Playful treatment and pleasant feelings of intimate excitement. Twilight length 28 cm. A pleasant feeling around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion and arousing the right atmosphere.
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Delicate shimmering feather with wand. Playful treatment and pleasant feelings of intimate excitement. Twilight length 28 cm. A pleasant feeling around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion and arousing the right atmosphere.
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Get to know the deepest, most intimate corners of your body with a set of dilators in the penis. Silicone dilators with different diameters (max 8 mm). Length 30 cm. They have a corrugated wall and are flexible. Start slowly and add gradually!
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Super kinky handcuffs from the INTOYOU BDSM LINE series. Pleasant, tasteful ... Shiny nylon is complemented by faux fur. The handcuffs are closed with Velcro. They are size adjustable. Both handcuffs are connected by metal buckles.
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Super kinky handcuffs from the INTOYOU BDSM LINE series. Pleasant, tasteful ... Shiny nylon is complemented by faux fur. The handcuffs are closed with Velcro. They are size adjustable. Both handcuffs are connected by metal buckles.
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Super kinky handcuffs from the INTOYOU BDSM LINE series. Pleasant, tasteful ... Shiny nylon is complemented by faux fur. The handcuffs are closed with Velcro. They are size adjustable. Both handcuffs are connected by metal buckles.
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Line Whip (Black) - A small whip for passionate moments. It can tickle, but it can also pinch a lot! The handle fits in one hand and is decorated with a combination of black and red spirals. The total length of the whip is 26 cm.
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Neoprene handcuffs from the Darkness collection. Comfortable to wear, resistant to harder sex. Neoprene is very comfortable and soft. The handcuffs are closed with Velcro. They are size adjustable. Both handcuffs are connected by metal buckle.
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Do you need to revive a slowly declining love affair? Just untie yourself and bring a little variation to everyday sex. A 9-piece set to spice up sex with a little light BDSM and other toys. GRAY BOX offers something for her, for him and for both!
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Metal handcuffs with faux fur. An important tool for lovers of harsh treatment. Contain set of keys. Total length 30 cm. Handcuff diameter max 7 cm. The plush is soft and pleasant to the touch. In any situation, the handcuffs will be comfortable.
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You2Toys Bondage Board BDSM Bonding Board with soft padding. Set of pads and sex toys - handcuffs, collar, gag, whip and more. Dimensions 120 x 60 cm. Weight 7.1 kg. Strong attachment and absolute helplessness. Everything in the hands of your master.
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Robust black cuffs with metal strap and adjustable length Darkness Handcuffs with Fur and Padlock. A comfortable metal buckle ensures a comfortable grip. Made of artificial leather. Hand sewn. Experience passionate moments of excitement to the full.
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Each feather is unique. The wand with a feather measures a full 42 cm. Feather tickling is a popular activity among people. Pleasant feeling of passing a small pass around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion.
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Each feather is unique. The wand with a feather measures a full 42 cm. Feather tickling is a popular activity among people. Pleasant feeling of passing a small pass around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion.
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Each feather is unique. The wand with a feather measures a full 42 cm. Feather tickling is a popular activity among people. Pleasant feeling of passing a small pass around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion.
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Teach your dog to listen properly! The Fetish Collection Dog Mask only needs a leash and you can start going for walks. Universal size (S-L). The surface imitates leather. With a zipper for comfortable breathing. Soft ear.
Another step closer to assuming the position of alpha male. Shiny Men's Thong Black Level Men Vinyl G-String RIO knows how to achieve it. You will shoot your masculinity sky high!
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Share beautiful moments with your partner with the pink BDSM set EasyToys Secret Pleasure Chest Pink. A 10-piece set full of toys waiting to turn your nights into hot games full of excitement.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.
