BDSM toys for men
up to 10 cm (small)
BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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A set of pegs in the penis. Urethral dilation for lovers of firm erections and extra stimulation. Pleasant silicone.
A set of pegs in the penis. Urethral dilation for lovers of firm erections and extra stimulation. Pleasant silicone.
A silicone chastity belt for aspiring men. More comfort than with the plastic version.
A silicone chastity belt for aspiring men. More comfort than with the plastic version.
Push your limits: the Chastity Cock Cage gives you direct control over your partner's penis.
Strong erections and more intense anal stimulation. Penis ring with anal ball and stimulator for G-spot and clitoris.
LOCKDOWN penis cage made of high quality ABS plastic. Effectively prevents erection. The set includes several rings and locks with keys and more.
LOCKDOWN penis cage made of high quality ABS plastic. Effectively prevents erection. The set includes several rings and locks with keys and more.
Give yourself a long erection and a more intense sexual experience. Vibrating cock ring with 10 modes. Super toy for couples.
A set of pegs in the penis. Urethral dilation for lovers of firm erections and extra stimulation. 100% pure silicone.
A set of pegs in the penis. Urethral dilation for lovers of firm erections and extra stimulation. 100% pure silicone.
Harder fun for the demanding: with a pin in the ass and a cage on the penis. Double pleasure combines this toy in a perfect design.
Expand your pleasure with a new toy. Penis and testicle ring with clitoris vibrator. Convenient control with remote control. Great toy for couples.
Expand your pleasure with a new toy. Penis and testicle ring with clitoris vibrator. Convenient control with remote control. Great toy for couples.
Benedict is a ring with a vibrator: It will bring you to your knees! Double penis and testicle ring stimulates the area behind the testicles. It gives you 5+5 vibration modes. The pleasant ergonomic shape will pamper you.
Treat yourself to new entertainment. Anal lock combines two exciting pleasures! Your growing erection will add to the intensity of anal pleasure. This toy is also vibrating (7 programs).
Let yourself be entertained in the performance of a penis sleeve with an anal plug. Anal lock Pretty Love Hercules combines two exciting toys! Your growing erection will add anal pleasure.
Solid metal penis cage, perfect chastity belt for men. A large metal ring around the testicles prevents the cage from being removed. It is placed on the flaccid penis over the testicles. Hole for urination, can be worn for a long time.
Premium erection ring. Great choice for achieving a firm erection. Enhances enjoyment thanks to greater blood flow to the penis. It acts as a sleeve for the penis and testicles and a dam massager. Diameter from 3.25 cm. Elastic. Silicone.
The days of your sexual freedom are numbered. Chastity belt with the possibility of electrical stimulation (Requires external source). It effectively prevents an erection. Set with locks. Solid quality workmanship with adjustable size.
The days of your sexual freedom are numbered. Chastity belt with the possibility of electrical stimulation (Requires external source). It effectively prevents an erection. Set with locks. Solid quality workmanship with adjustable size.
Do you need to revive a slowly declining love affair? Just untie yourself and bring a little variation to everyday sex. A 9-piece set to spice up sex with a little light BDSM and other toys. GRAY BOX offers something for her, for him and for both!
Abstinence leads to a higher and more intense form of pleasure and excitement. Lock your can in the Lock-a-Willy chastity belt and let your burst of excitement overflow. Silicone cage is hygienic, suitable for long wearing. Included 3 ring diameters.
Two larger pegs create a loop between your penis and anus through which the golden liquid flows. Both pins are made of high-quality stainless steel. A 62 cm long silicone tube is stretched between the two pegs.
If you're looking for something to take anal pleasure to a whole new level, the Anal Fantasy Elite Collection Ass-Gasm Cock Blocker is the obvious choice. Pleasure at a high level, materials of the highest quality.
This black cock cage will protect your manhood like no other erotic device! The ManCage chastity belt is an excellent erotic toy for BDSM practitioners. Set of keys.
Small Hollow Dilator Sinner Gear Small Silicone Penis Plug With Pull Ring. Total length 10.5 cm. Maximum diameter 6 mm. The hollow body comes in handy when urinating or ejaculating. Dilator made of pleasant and flexible silicone.
A unique combination of glans ring and dilator in one product. Experience intense sensations from both functions at the same time. The purple ring encircles the glans, the silver dilator is gently inserted into the urethra.
No knots, no blisters, no sticking to the hair. Just pure freedom to experiment on your own terms.
All-rubber penis cage Master Series made of comfortable material. Erectile erection in style. It is placed on the flaccid penis over the testicles. No locks needed. Hole for urination, can be worn for a long time.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.