BDSM toys for men
BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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An attractive fashion accessory for your outfit. Suitable for everyday wear. Women's bondage harness around the neck. Sensual strips of polyester. One size fits all.
An attractive fashion accessory for your outfit. Suitable for everyday wear. Women's bondage harness around the neck. Sensual strips of polyester. One size fits all.
An attractive fashion accessory for your outfit. Suitable for everyday wear. Women's bondage harness around the neck. Sensual strips of polyester. One size fits all.
Solid metal penis cage, perfect chastity belt for men. A large metal ring around the testicles prevents the cage from being removed. It is placed on the flaccid penis over the testicles. Hole for urination, can be worn for a long time.
Premium erection ring. Great choice for achieving a firm erection. Enhances enjoyment thanks to greater blood flow to the penis. It acts as a sleeve for the penis and testicles and a dam massager. Diameter from 3.25 cm. Elastic. Silicone.
Double erection ring from the VICEROY Premium Series collection. Better and firmer erections than with a regular ring. More intense enjoyment. Ring diameter from 3.25 cm. Elastic. Silicone penis ring.
Complete satisfaction - donut-shaped gag in the mouth with attached nipple clamps. Donut gag suitable for oral sex. Fixed adjustable clamps. Comfortable and sexy combination of two great toys.
Giorgia full body bondage. Quality body around the neck, across the chest and hips towards the crotch. Material in combination with metal elements. Vegan leather is environmentally friendly.
Attractive breasts bondage Diannia. Women's bondage set with attachment around the neck. Solid material in combination with metal elements. Vegan leather is environmentally friendly.
Feel the attractiveness and strength with bondage to Domine's chest. Harness is comfortable. He has belts around his chest and hips connected by strong metal rings. One-size design. Robust men's bondage. Environmentally friendly vegan leather.
Fetish dog head mask. Made of very comfortable neoprene. The surface is smooth in a semi-matte jacket. One size universal size. Detachable nose. Dog mask with ears and snout.
Fetish dog head mask. Made of very comfortable neoprene. The surface is smooth in a semi-matte jacket. One size universal size. Detachable nose. Dog mask with ears and snout.
All-metal urethral probe from the Mystim workshop. The beautifully polished surface in combination with electrical stimulation is perfect. Diameter 6 mm. Length 15 cm. Electrical stimulation connection (Requires external source).
Leatherette butt slap in a luxurious design. From the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM collection. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun.
Smaller whip that just fit in the hand. From the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM collection. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun.
Experience your fantasy kinky with the TABOOM bond rope. High quality mooring rope with a rough surface. Suitable for the experienced Japanese Shibari. 100% natural hemp rope, length 5 meters, ⌀ 10 mm.
Experience your fantasy kinky with the TABOOM Bondage Rope. High quality solid mooring rope with a fine surface. A nice start to the BDSM world of bonding. Suitable for beginners and experienced. Length 10 meters, ⌀ 7 mm.
Experience your fantasy kinky with the TABOOM Bondage Rope. High quality solid mooring rope with a fine surface. A nice start to the BDSM world of bonding. Suitable for beginners and experienced. Length 5 meters, ⌀ 7 mm.
Silicone testicle harness from the BONERS collection. Divide your testicles through the strap. Large diameter range from 4 to 5.5 cm. Adjustable tightening. Elastic. Waterproof.
Super kinky handcuffs from the INTOYOU BDSM LINE series. Pleasant, tasteful ... Shiny nylon is complemented by faux fur. The handcuffs are closed with Velcro. They are size adjustable. Both handcuffs are connected by metal buckles.
Hogtie And Cuffs tying set with tying cross and 4 handcuffs. Robust, with metal strap and adjustable length. Made of vegan leather. Experience passionate moments of excitement to the fullest with the Fetish Submissive bondage kit.
Robust black cuffs with metal strap and adjustable length. A high-quality metal buckle will ensure a comfortable grip. Made of vegan leather. Experience passionate moments of excitement to the fullest with Fetish Submissive cuffs.
You2Toys Bondage Board BDSM Bonding Board with soft padding. Set of pads and sex toys - handcuffs, collar, gag, whip and more. Dimensions 120 x 60 cm. Weight 7.1 kg. Strong attachment and absolute helplessness. Everything in the hands of your master.
Discover the true beauty of the art of tying techniques with the Darkness SHIBARI Linen Rope. The bondage rope is made of purely natural materials. Unique texture specific to this type of rope. Total length 10 meters.
Abstinence leads to a higher and more intense form of pleasure and excitement. Lock your can in the Lock-a-Willy chastity belt and let your burst of excitement overflow. Silicone cage is hygienic, suitable for long wearing. Included 3 ring diameters.
Teach your dog to listen properly! The Fetish Collection Dog Mask only needs a leash and you can start going for walks. Universal size (S-L). The surface imitates leather. With a zipper for comfortable breathing. Soft ear.
Share beautiful moments with your partner with the EasyToys Secret Pleasure Chest Black BDSM set. A 10-piece set full of toys waiting to turn your nights into hot games full of excitement.
Latex diaper pants in clear color for him. Tight fit with short legs and high waist. Made of natural latex.
Latex diaper pants in clear color for him. Tight fit with short legs and high waist. Made of natural latex.
It's time for a real beating. But it won't work without proper tools! For all the naughty and for all the sadists, I have the perfect solution in the form of the EasyToys Black Leather Paddle XOXO.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.