BDSM toys for men in stock
BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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Collar with handcuffs perfect for fans of hard games Fetish Submissive BOUND NECK TO WRIST RESTRAINTS. The collar is 44 cm long with a height of 5.5 cm. The handcuffs are attached to the collar through metal chains. The cuffs are 5.5 cm high with a d
Share beautiful moments with your partner with the pink BDSM set EasyToys Secret Pleasure Chest Pink. A 10-piece set full of toys waiting to turn your nights into hot games full of excitement.
A sense of pleasure and pain that show you your fantasies. Doc Johnson Japanese wax candles will take care of your entertainment.
Luxurious appearance and durability in one. The chain leash made of shiny silver metal is not only practical, but also elegant. Length 78 cm with practical snap hook and hand loop.
Want to feel special at your next party? The Cottelli Embroidered Mask is the right accessory. Unique design and maximum comfort. Try it and experience the feeling of mysterious elegance.
Did you know that ergonomic design can significantly enhance your experience? You2Toys Silicone Dilator Set has a curved and wavy shape for extra stimulation. The rounded tip allows for easy and painless insertion.
A black and red classic that never disappoints - the elegance of Devil Sticks in a form you can feel on your skin and in your mind.
100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.
100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.
The metal handcuffs with RALK mechanism can create an authentic handcuffing feeling, while weighing less than the police version and having a hidden lock for instant release.
Our soft velvet mask allows you to explore new levels of pleasure. Close your eyes and let yourself be carried away into a world of intense experiences.
Try a new dimension of closeness with our Belt Bondage Set. Discover how excitement and confidence can bring your bedroom to life. Ready to explore?
Extravagant black body harness with cuffs in imitation leather, decorated with silver-tone details and adjustable straps. Comfortable to wear, quick to attach and perfect for bold, seductive play.
Adjustable electro cock cage with remote control, multiple e-stim patterns, and secure locking via padlock or numbered tags. Clear acrylic, conductive silicone, rechargeable. 11 cm total, 8 cm insertable.
Sturdy metal chastity cage for secure and intense control. Perfect for power play, suitable for both beginners and advanced users.
Stainless steel plug for intense urethral stimulation.
This chic collar with flogger perfectly combines elegance and playful seduction in one captivating accessory. Moreover, the flogger is not just for show, but is ideal for teasing caresses or playful spankings on your partner's skin.
7 toys not only for lovers. Give a piece of the world of sex in a playful gift package. Let's play!
Sinful play with premium silicone and leather gag. Take a peek into the darkness: the Dark Secret BDSM collection.
A form of modern seductive art originating in Japan. Open yourself to the beauty of tying.
Bed restraint kit including handcuffs. You can get satisfaction on almost any mattress. Max dimensions 290 x 140 cm.
Bring your hidden predator to the surface. A kinky chest harness to make you sexier. Vegan leather to save the environment.
You need courage for this. Every time a spanking hits your ass, you're gonna get a real beating. Let yourself be punished. Be kinky!
Leave a deep impression. A chain around your body as a sexy accessory. From the DONA Statement by TABOOM collection. Available in sizes S to XL.
Beautiful colours and strong binding... Let yourself be tied by your beloved counterpart and experience your kinky fantasies. Length 7.5 m, ⌀ 5 mm.
Beautiful colours and strong binding... Let yourself be tied by your beloved counterpart and experience your kinky fantasies. Length 7.5 m, ⌀ 5 mm.
Arkadio, wearable stimulator for him, filled with great pleasure. Your glans and the whole penis will go into orgasmic heaven. Plus, with the support of WatchMe technology.
This is really kinky! Gag your sub with a plug. You will only listen to his moans if you want to. Perfect gag made of PU leather and silicone. Extra nice, extra kinky!
Expand your pleasure with a new toy. Penis and testicle ring with clitoris vibrator. Convenient control with remote control. Great toy for couples.
Premium erection ring. Penis ring from the VICEROY Premium Series collection. It will take care of an extra firm erection and stronger enjoyment. It acts as a sheath for the penis and testicles. Diameter from 3.25 cm. Elastic. Silicone.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.