BDSM toys for men in stock
BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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With adjustable buckles and a removable chain, Bad Kitty Handcuffs offer comfort and safety. The circumference from 17 to 27 cm guarantees that they will fit almost everyone.
From the first delicate lashing to intricate full-body patterns, the path to mastery starts with the right rope. 60 metres gives you room to grow.
No knots, no blisters, no sticking to the hair. Just pure freedom to experiment on your own terms.
How can an ordinary feather bring a new dimension to your bedroom? Try gentle touches and discover how it can stimulate the senses and enhance intimacy.
A quality whip changes the whole atmosphere of the game. Three Tail Tassel Flogger by Devil Sticks - three leather strands, 76 cm of elegance in black and red combination. For those who take BDSM seriously.
Bondage doesn't have to be complicated. Try a belt that doesn't need knots and holds itself - and you'll understand that simplicity is actually the greatest strength.
When you turn off the one-sensor, the others wake up with surprising force. Try blindfolding yourself for a moment and let yourself be touched - the difference will amaze you.
Resilience and flexibility are key. This whip can withstand even the most intense sessions.
From a gentle touch to a powerful swing - all in one tool. The thin, genuine leather head puts you in control of every moment. Whether you're just starting out or have experience.
The Spike Paddle from the Devil Sticks collection combines elegance with intensity - genuine leather, metal spikes and a handle that gives you absolute confidence in every moment of the game.
Quality leather handcuffs don't have to hurt - soft padding and precise workmanship mean comfort even when worn for long periods of time.
100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.
The classic Devil Sticks whip is the perfect tool for building tension, transforming gentle teasing into a sharp and thrilling reward with a single flick.
The Liebe Seele handcuffs, with their exceptionally smooth surface, ensure a secure fit and complete surrender, without the risk of uncomfortable pressure marks or chafing on the wrists.
The metal handcuffs with RALK mechanism can create an authentic handcuffing feeling, while weighing less than the police version and having a hidden lock for instant release.
The metal handcuffs with RALK mechanism can create an authentic handcuffing feeling, while weighing less than the police version and having a hidden lock for instant release.
The metal handcuffs with RALK mechanism can create an authentic handcuffing feeling, while weighing less than the police version and having a hidden lock for instant release.
100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.
An elegant and reliable instrument with tiny prongs for exploring sensitivity, sensual play and light dominance.
Transparency that impresses. Our Latex Herren Pants are ideal for those who want to leave an unforgettable impression.
Style and comfort can go hand in hand. The Bad Kitty Cat mask proves it. The gently roughened surface and flexible design make it the perfect choice for any occasion.
With the Black Faux Leather Flogg you will discover how softness and intensity can create the perfect balance in your intimate moments.
Beginners are often looking for the perfect tool - something that forgives mistakes but offers room to grow. Soft fringe and a solid handle are just the right place to start.
Do you want to experience something new? Try out what it's like when your partner can't touch you? Tease him and be in a dominant position? Then these plush handcuffs are ideal for you. They don't press and yet serve their purpose. They are equipped...
Do you want to experience something new? Try out what it's like when your partner can't touch you? Tease him and be in a dominant position? Then these plush handcuffs are ideal for you. They don't press and yet serve their purpose. They are equipped...
Do you want to experience something new? Try out what it's like when your partner can't touch you? Tease him and be in a dominant position? Then these plush handcuffs are ideal for you. They don't press and yet serve their purpose. They are equipped...
Our rope is designed to be durable, ensuring you can focus on the game without worry. The rope allows you to explore new techniques and take your experience to the next level.
Late X latex knee highs - where comfort meets provocative elegance. Why sacrifice comfort for style when you can have both?
Wondering what to gift your partner? Our handcuffs with a removable plush cover are not only practical, but also beautifully designed. An ideal gift for special occasions.
Wondering what to gift your partner? Our handcuffs with a removable plush cover are not only practical, but also beautifully designed. An ideal gift for special occasions.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.