BDSM toys for men
for couples
BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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A real reward and punishment! Leather reprimands with solid wood grip. The grip can also be used as a dildo. It's up to you which of these the sub deserves.
It sparks, pops loudly and pinches nicely. An electric rod to punish your naughty slave. Just choose where you put this sparking toy.
Silicone penis chastity belt. Matte Romello cage in a set with keys and locks. Effectively prevents erection of the penis! Perfect for travel - Detectors at airports will not recognize anything.
Silicone penis chastity belt. Matte Romello cage in a set with keys and locks. Effectively prevents erection of the penis! Perfect for travel - Detectors at airports will not recognize anything.
This is really kinky! Gag your sub with a plug. You will only listen to his moans if you want to. Perfect gag made of PU leather and silicone. Extra nice, extra kinky!
Coercion for your sub? It forces him to open his mouth and let you listen to his moans. Throat fuck allowed! Solid metal donut gag with adjustable length. Deluxe Edition!
An addition to the collection for experienced dominants and submissives. A metal expansion rod with a pair of handcuffs to achieve a tight handcuff. Adjustable extension rod length 60 to 104 cm.
Spiked wheel for intimate stimulation TABOOM. The beautiful golden color evokes a feeling of luxury. Metal Spiked Wheel: Indulge your sub with painful or tickling pleasure. Just push a little.
Provoke and enjoy: A luxurious stiletto from the Bondage In Luxury collection. Shimmer feather with colorful turkey feathers and gold metal handle. This is called luxury and pleasure.
Very comfortable TABOOM unisex balaclava. Enter the world of fetish roleplay! Gangsterfetish, or perhaps a fetish for assault and kidnapping? Balaclava with holes for eyes and mouth made of elastic material.
Coercion for your sub? It forces him to open his mouth and let you listen to his moans. Throat fuck allowed! Silicone donut gag with adjustable length.
Beautiful and elegant: an exciting centimeter from TABOOM. Long turkey feather in black color with metal handle. This is called luxury and pleasure. The total length of the centipede is 44 cm.
An addition to the collection for experienced dominants and submissives. A metal expansion rod with a pair of handcuffs to achieve a tight handcuff. Adjustable extension rod length 60 to 104 cm.
Expand your pleasure with a new toy. Penis and testicle ring with clitoris vibrator. Convenient control with remote control. Great toy for couples.
Expand your pleasure with a new toy. Penis and testicle ring with clitoris vibrator. Convenient control with remote control. Great toy for couples.
Benedict is a ring with a vibrator: It will bring you to your knees! Double penis and testicle ring stimulates the area behind the testicles. It gives you 5+5 vibration modes. The pleasant ergonomic shape will pamper you.
Stylish bondage kit Rosy Gold. You will experience unforgettable moments in luxury. Everything you need to get started with BDSM is in this set. There are 9 toys you won't be able to resist.
Strong metal construction, firm grip of 4 handcuffs. An unforgettable sexy experience with the INTOYOU stretch rod. Up to 4 attached handcuffs can be attached to the metal rod via staples.
Enjoy the experience with a sexy stretch rod. Fetish Addict Spreader Bar with fixed handcuffs. Solid fiberglass core with 4 comfortable straps. Pleasant soft surface and quality Velcro!
Great bondage kit for novices and also curious. It contains everything you may want to try on the first try. The most used kinky toys. The package lets you taste attractive bdsm erotica.
Solid metal penis cage, perfect chastity belt for men. A large metal ring around the testicles prevents the cage from being removed. It is placed on the flaccid penis over the testicles. Hole for urination, can be worn for a long time.
Black leatherette handcuffs with quality metal buckles. Handcuffs are robust and strong. Tightening tightness adjustment. Experience passionate moments of excitement to the fullest with Fetish Addict handcuffs.
Delicate shimmering feather with wand. Playful treatment and pleasant feelings of intimate excitement. Twilight length 28 cm. A pleasant feeling around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion and arousing the right atmosphere.
Delicate shimmering feather with wand. Playful treatment and pleasant feelings of intimate excitement. Twilight length 28 cm. A pleasant feeling around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion and arousing the right atmosphere.
Delicate shimmering feather with wand. Playful treatment and pleasant feelings of intimate excitement. Twilight length 28 cm. A pleasant feeling around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion and arousing the right atmosphere.
Basic bondage kit for curious couples in the world of BDSM. Contains the most used kinky toys. The starter pack lets you taste attractive bdsm erotica. Toys in black.
Basic bondage kit for curious couples in the world of BDSM. Contains the most used kinky toys. The starter pack lets you taste attractive bdsm erotica. Toys in black.
Leatherette butt slap in a luxurious design. From the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM collection. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun.
Leatherette butt slap in a luxurious design. From the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM collection. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun.
Whip total length of 47 cm. They hold great and whip even better. From the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM collection. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.