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BDSM toys for men
for couples
BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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The Wartenberg Stimulating Wheel is on its way from a medical tool to a toy loved in BDSM.
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The Wartenberg Stimulating Wheel is on its way from a medical tool to a toy loved in BDSM.
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The Wartenberg Stimulating Wheel is on its way from a medical tool to a toy loved in BDSM.
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15,80 €
The Wartenberg Stimulating Wheel is on its way from a medical tool to a toy loved in BDSM.
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15,80 €
A form of modern seductive art originating in Japan. Open yourself to the beauty of tying.
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A form of modern seductive art originating in Japan. Open yourself to the beauty of tying.
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A form of modern seductive art originating in Japan. Open yourself to the beauty of tying.
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A form of modern seductive art originating in Japan. Open yourself to the beauty of tying.
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Semi-transparent PVC tape for tying. 25 meters of sexy bondage tape that doesn't stick, only to itself!
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Semi-transparent PVC tape for tying. 25 meters of sexy bondage tape that doesn't stick, only to itself!
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A silicone chastity belt for aspiring men. More comfort than with the plastic version.
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A silicone chastity belt for aspiring men. More comfort than with the plastic version.
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Push your limits: the Chastity Cock Cage gives you direct control over your partner's penis.
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He's gonna go through your asshole and grab your cock really hard. An anal plug with suction and a cock and testicle ring.
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Strong erections and more intense anal stimulation. Penis ring with anal ball and stimulator for G-spot and clitoris.
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LOCKDOWN penis cage made of high quality ABS plastic. Effectively prevents erection. The set includes several rings and locks with keys and more.
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35,80 €
LOCKDOWN penis cage made of high quality ABS plastic. Effectively prevents erection. The set includes several rings and locks with keys and more.
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35,80 €
LOCKDOWN penis cage made of high quality ABS plastic. Effectively prevents erection. The set includes several rings and locks with keys and more.
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47,80 €
More pleasure for both? Put it on and enjoy double penetration, more intense vaginal sex or vibrations on the testicles.
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Give yourself a long erection and a more intense sexual experience. Vibrating cock ring with 10 modes. Super toy for couples.
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A supplement for more beautiful sex. The elastic penis and finger sleeve ensures more intense penetration.
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A set of toys for a harder set. Ideal as a gift or for newcomers. Includes everything to get you into the world of light BDSM. The most used kinky toys for both.
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Sexy spectacle of a perfectly submissive counterpart. The bondage cross will show you new pleasures of play possibilities.
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Sexy spectacle of a perfectly submissive counterpart. The bondage cross with handcuffs will show you new pleasures of play possibilities.
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Bed restraint kit including handcuffs. You can get satisfaction on almost any mattress. Max dimensions 290 x 140 cm.
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Discover new corners of your sexuality. The combination of two gag toys and nipple clamps is the perfect sexy spectacle.
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Use your imagination. The advanced bdsm kit for beginner enthusiasts will get you high. 5 pieces of toys will make sure your fantasies are fulfilled.
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Open yourself to the beauty of the Japanese art of body binding. Cotton rope is ideal for beginners. Comfortable kinky rope with a length of 5 meters.
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Beautiful and perfect, sexy tied up. Body harness with hand bondage. A kinky addition to your intimate life. Environmentally friendly vegan leather.
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You need courage for this. Every time a spanking hits your ass, you're gonna get a real beating. Let yourself be punished. Be kinky!
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.
