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BDSM toys for men
for couples

BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.

BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.

Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.

What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?

Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:

  • CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.

  • Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.

  • Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.

  • Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.

  • Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.

  • Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.

  • Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.

Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment

When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.

Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.

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Curiosity in the bedroom can lead to unexpected heights of intimacy. Our handcuffs are designed for safe and comfortable play that will bring you and your partner closer together.

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15,80 €

Get ready for an evening full of style and comfort! Our belt cuffs are the perfect accessory for any occasion. It adapts to every figure and ensures an unrepeatable experience.

Belt cuffs to the neck
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Get ready for an evening full of style and comfort! Our belt cuffs are the perfect accessory for any occasion. It adapts to every figure and ensures an unrepeatable experience.

Liebe Seele Black Organosilicon Riding Crop, riding crop
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19,80 €

Stylish 55 cm riding crop made from vegan organosilicon PU with a patterned handle, wrist loop, and nickel-free metal details for secure grip, precise control, and seductive BDSM play.

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11,80 €

Open yourself to the beauty of the Japanese art of body binding. Cotton rope is ideal for beginners. Comfortable kinky rope with a length of 5 meters.

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17,96 €

Beautiful colours and strong binding... Let yourself be tied by your beloved counterpart and experience your kinky fantasies. Length 7.5 m, ⌀ 5 mm.

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17,96 €

Beautiful colours and strong binding... Let yourself be tied by your beloved counterpart and experience your kinky fantasies. Length 7.5 m, ⌀ 5 mm.

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55,80 €

Benedict is a ring with a vibrator: It will bring you to your knees! Double penis and testicle ring stimulates the area behind the testicles. It gives you 5+5 vibration modes. The pleasant ergonomic shape will pamper you.

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11,80 €

Experience your fantasy kinky with the TABOOM bond rope. High quality mooring rope with a rough surface. Suitable for the experienced Japanese Shibari. 100% natural hemp rope, length 5 meters, ⌀ 7 mm.

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11,80 €

Experience your fantasy kinky with the TABOOM Bondage Rope. High quality solid mooring rope with a fine surface. A nice start to the BDSM world of bonding. Suitable for beginners and experienced. Length 5 meters, ⌀ 7 mm.

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11,80 €

Experience your fantasy kinky with the TABOOM Bondage Rope. High quality solid mooring rope with a fine surface. A nice start to the BDSM world of bonding. Suitable for beginners and experienced. Length 5 meters, ⌀ 7 mm.

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15,80 €

Discover the true beauty of the art of tying techniques with the Darkness SHIBARI Linen Rope. The bondage rope is made of purely natural materials. Unique texture specific to this type of rope. Total length 10 meters.

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51,80 €

Abstinence leads to a higher and more intense form of pleasure and excitement. Lock your can in the Lock-a-Willy chastity belt and let your burst of excitement overflow. Silicone cage is hygienic, suitable for long wearing. Included 3 ring diameters.

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3,80 €

How can an ordinary feather bring a new dimension to your bedroom? Try gentle touches and discover how it can stimulate the senses and enhance intimacy.

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27,80 €

The Liebe Seele handcuffs, with their exceptionally smooth surface, ensure a secure fit and complete surrender, without the risk of uncomfortable pressure marks or chafing on the wrists.

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11,80 €

The metal handcuffs with RALK mechanism can create an authentic handcuffing feeling, while weighing less than the police version and having a hidden lock for instant release.

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13,56 €

With the Black Faux Leather Flogg you will discover how softness and intensity can create the perfect balance in your intimate moments.

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31,80 €

Bondage set with cuffs, gag and anal hook for softer BDSM play. Delivers hands-behind-back restraint, anal pressure, adjustable straps and a silicone gag ball with air holes for easier breathing.

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FAQ for BDSM toys for men

  • What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?

    CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.

  • How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?

    BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.

  • What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?

    A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.

  • What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?

    Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.

  • How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?

    Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.

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