BDSM toys for men
for experienced
BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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Hmmm! Revive your bed fantasies. Sturdy synthetic leather handcuffs. Adjustable 18-28 cm.
Show everyone who your sub really is. Comfortable silicone collar with bold SLUT lettering.
Let yourself be shaken. Beautiful bull with golden accessories and faux leather. Just push. From the DONA Statement by TABOOM collection.
Meaaaow, watch out, I have sharp claws. I'm gonna hunt you down tonight. Catwoman eye mask from the DONA by TABOOM collection.
Sharpen your senses and feel every touch, every breath. It will darken your mind. From the DONA by TABOOM collection.
Beautiful and exciting, with just the right touch of luxury. Sensual peacock feathers from the DONA by TABOOM collection.
Leave a deep impression. A chain around your body as a sexy accessory. From the DONA Statement by TABOOM collection. Available in sizes S to XL.
A complete set to prove your point. Collar with sexy leash from the DONA Statement by TABOOM collection.
You can't get away from me now. Luxury leatherette leash with metal chain to your beautiful collar. From the DONA Statement by TABOOM collection.
Convince those around you who you really belong to. Sexy chain necklace from the DONA Statement by TABOOM collection.
That calls for some real hot pleasure. Stylish metal handcuffs in gold from the DONA by TABOOM collection.
A submissive journey in considerable style. Metal cuffs Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM decorated with sparkling gems.
A submissive journey in considerable style. Metal cuffs Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM decorated with sparkling gems.
Beautiful colours and strong binding... Let yourself be tied by your beloved counterpart and experience your kinky fantasies. Length 7.5 m, ⌀ 5 mm.
Beautiful colours and strong binding... Let yourself be tied by your beloved counterpart and experience your kinky fantasies. Length 7.5 m, ⌀ 5 mm.
Beautiful colours and strong binding... Let yourself be tied by your beloved counterpart and experience your kinky fantasies. Length 7.5 m, ⌀ 5 mm.
Beautiful colours and strong binding... Let yourself be tied by your beloved counterpart and experience your kinky fantasies. Length 7.5 m, ⌀ 5 mm.
Beautiful colours and strong binding... Let yourself be tied by your beloved counterpart and experience your kinky fantasies. Length 7.5 m, ⌀ 5 mm.
Beautiful colours and strong binding... Let yourself be tied by your beloved counterpart and experience your kinky fantasies. Length 7.5 m, ⌀ 5 mm.
Arkadio, wearable stimulator for him, filled with great pleasure. Your glans and the whole penis will go into orgasmic heaven. Plus, with the support of WatchMe technology.
A real reward and punishment! Leather reprimands with solid wood grip. The grip can also be used as a dildo. It's up to you which of these the sub deserves.
Harder fun for the demanding: with a pin in the ass and a cage on the penis. Double pleasure combines this toy in a perfect design.
It sparks, pops loudly and pinches nicely. An electric rod to punish your naughty slave. Just choose where you put this sparking toy.
Silicone penis chastity belt. Matte Romello cage in a set with keys and locks. Effectively prevents erection of the penis! Perfect for travel - Detectors at airports will not recognize anything.
Silicone penis chastity belt. Matte Romello cage in a set with keys and locks. Effectively prevents erection of the penis! Perfect for travel - Detectors at airports will not recognize anything.
This is really kinky! Gag your sub with a plug. You will only listen to his moans if you want to. Perfect gag made of PU leather and silicone. Extra nice, extra kinky!
Coercion for your sub? It forces him to open his mouth and let you listen to his moans. Throat fuck allowed! Solid metal donut gag with adjustable length. Deluxe Edition!
An addition to the collection for experienced dominants and submissives. A metal expansion rod with a pair of handcuffs to achieve a tight handcuff. Adjustable extension rod length 60 to 104 cm.
Spiked wheel for intimate stimulation TABOOM. The beautiful golden color evokes a feeling of luxury. Metal Spiked Wheel: Indulge your sub with painful or tickling pleasure. Just push a little.
Provoke and enjoy: A luxurious stiletto from the Bondage In Luxury collection. Shimmer feather with colorful turkey feathers and gold metal handle. This is called luxury and pleasure.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.