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BDSM toys for men
for beginners

BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.

BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.

Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.

What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?

Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:

  • CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.

  • Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.

  • Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.

  • Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.

  • Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.

  • Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.

  • Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.

Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment

When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.

Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.

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39,80 €

Ladies' panties with attached 2 dildos LATE X Latex Briefs with 2 Dildos. Made of natural latex (may cause an allergic reaction). Outer dildo length 16 cm, diameter 4 cm. inner dildo length 12 cm, diameter 3.5 cm. Universal size S-L.

LATE X Crotchless Latex String
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23,80 €

Women's latex pants with crotch cut. Universal size S-L. Very elastic and comfortable. Black color. This piece of sexy latex is waiting for you! It was designed without crotch for spontaneous games. Perfect, don't you think?

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23,80 €

Bandages around the neck and tummy Bad Kitty Neck Restraint with Handcuffs. Each part is adjustable in length. Comfortable but firm grip. The surface imitates the skin. Black finish. Each part is thoroughly stitched with thread.

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15,80 €

Taking absolute control over your partner has never been easier. Silence over gold takes on a new meaning. Explore the boundaries of dominance and submissiveness with maximum comfort.

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15,80 €

Taking absolute control over your partner has never been easier. Silence over gold takes on a new meaning. Explore the boundaries of dominance and submissiveness with maximum comfort.

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3,96 €

How often do you experiment with new ways to please your partner? Our little centimeter is the perfect tool for discovering new erotic experiences.

You2Toys Glans Ring and Dilator
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19,80 €

A unique combination of glans ring and dilator in one product. Experience intense sensations from both functions at the same time. The purple ring encircles the glans, the silver dilator is gently inserted into the urethra.

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51,80 €

From the first delicate lashing to intricate full-body patterns, the path to mastery starts with the right rope. 60 metres gives you room to grow.

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15,80 €

Did you know that ergonomic design can significantly enhance your experience? You2Toys Silicone Dilator Set has a curved and wavy shape for extra stimulation. The rounded tip allows for easy and painless insertion.

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7,80 €

Did you know that Bondage Tape does not stick to skin or hair? It is made of 100% polyvinyl chloride. This means that you can experiment without worrying about unpleasant tearing or pain. Safety and comfort in the first place!

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7,80 €

Did you know that Bondage Tape does not stick to skin or hair? It is made of 100% polyvinyl chloride. This means that you can experiment without worrying about unpleasant tearing or pain. Safety and comfort in the first place!

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7,80 €

Did you know that Bondage Tape does not stick to skin or hair? It is made of 100% polyvinyl chloride. This means that you can experiment without worrying about unpleasant tearing or pain. Safety and comfort in the first place!

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7,80 €

Did you know that Bondage Tape does not stick to skin or hair? It is made of 100% polyvinyl chloride. This means that you can experiment without worrying about unpleasant tearing or pain. Safety and comfort in the first place!

Bondage Tape 15 m (Black)
  • 5
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7,80 €

Did you know that Bondage Tape does not stick to skin or hair? It is made of 100% polyvinyl chloride. This means that you can experiment without worrying about unpleasant tearing or pain. Safety and comfort in the first place!

Bad Kitty Feather Wand black
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9,56 €

"Excitement is the spice of life." With the feather pom pom wand, you can explore the finer side of erotic games. Being tickled with a feather can be incredibly exciting. Try it and discover new levels of pleasure.

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31,80 €

When it comes to BDSM, quality is key. Devil Sticks Hand Crop 20 is made of genuine leather and braided with leatherette. Long life and maximum comfort.

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7,80 €

No knots, no blisters, no sticking to the hair. Just pure freedom to experiment on your own terms.

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7,80 €

No knots, no blisters, no sticking to the hair. Just pure freedom to experiment on your own terms.

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11,80 €

A black and red classic that never disappoints - the elegance of Devil Sticks in a form you can feel on your skin and in your mind.

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6,76 €

The best toys are those that don't hurt and don't require an instructional video. Soft silicone handcuffs - no germs, no bruises, just fun for two.

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6,76 €

The best toys are those that don't hurt and don't require an instructional video. Soft silicone handcuffs - no germs, no bruises, just fun for two.

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7,80 €

Bondage doesn't have to be complicated. Try a belt that doesn't need knots and holds itself - and you'll understand that simplicity is actually the greatest strength.

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7,80 €

Bondage doesn't have to be complicated. Try a belt that doesn't need knots and holds itself - and you'll understand that simplicity is actually the greatest strength.

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17,96 €

When you turn off the one-sensor, the others wake up with surprising force. Try blindfolding yourself for a moment and let yourself be touched - the difference will amaze you.

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11,80 €

From a gentle touch to a powerful swing - all in one tool. The thin, genuine leather head puts you in control of every moment. Whether you're just starting out or have experience.

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11,80 €

Devil Sticks nubuck leather whip - 66 cm of pure sensuality for couples who want to explore new boundaries of intimacy.

Devil Sticks Crop Polished Grain Leather black
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11,80 €

The Crop Polished Grain combines elegant design with practicality – a sturdy handle, genuine leather and controllable impact. Ideal for beginners and advanced players alike.

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11,80 €

Crop Polished Grain combines elegant design with practicality - solid handle, genuine leather, controllable impact. Ideal for first steps and advanced play.

Devil Sticks Spike Paddle & Polished Leather
  • 5
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17,96 €

The Spike Paddle from the Devil Sticks collection combines elegance with intensity - genuine leather, metal spikes and a handle that gives you absolute confidence in every moment of the game.

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27,80 €

Quality leather handcuffs don't have to hurt - soft padding and precise workmanship mean comfort even when worn for long periods of time.

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FAQ for BDSM toys for men

  • What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?

    CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.

  • How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?

    BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.

  • What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?

    A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.

  • What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?

    Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.

  • How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?

    Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.

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