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BDSM toys for men
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BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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Make hearts beat faster and give them the sexual cure in this sexy Leg Avenue Naughty Nurse Costume.
All believers are blessed when you show up to the party in this 4-piece sexy nun costume.
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15,80 €
A set of pegs in the penis. Urethral dilation for lovers of firm erections and extra stimulation. Pleasant silicone.
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A set of pegs in the penis. Urethral dilation for lovers of firm erections and extra stimulation. Pleasant silicone.
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A set of pegs in the penis. Urethral dilation for lovers of firm erections and extra stimulation. Pleasant silicone.
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35,80 €
No artificiality, but an honest leather whip. You don't have to restrain yourself with force anymore.
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39,80 €
No artificiality, but honest leather reprimands. A whip with reprimands made of genuine leather. You don't have to limit your strength anymore.
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39,80 €
No artificiality, but honest leather reprimands. A whip with reprimands made of genuine leather. You don't have to limit your strength anymore.
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39,80 €
No artificiality, but honest leather reprimands. A whip with reprimands made of genuine leather. You don't have to limit your strength anymore.
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No artificiality, but honest leather reprimands. A whip with calfskin reprimands. You don't have to limit your strength anymore.
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51,80 €
No artificiality, but honest leather reprimands. A whip with calfskin reprimands. You don't have to limit your strength anymore.
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51,80 €
No artificiality, but honest leather reprimands. A whip with calfskin reprimands. You don't have to limit your strength anymore.
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No artificiality, but honest leather reprimands. A whip with calfskin reprimands. You don't have to limit your strength anymore.
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31,80 €
No artificiality, but honest leather reprimands. A whip with calfskin reprimands. You don't have to limit your strength anymore.
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159,80 €
Kinky & Cute: A bondage suitcase with everything you need. BDSM equipment with bows. Made to faux leather.
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159,80 €
Everything was thought of here. Whether you're starting out or just looking to outfit your dungeon, this will tempt you. Made of synthetic leather.
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199,80 €
Everything was thought of here. Whether you're starting out or just want to outfit your dungeon, this will tempt you to bondage cowhide.
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55,80 €
An adventure for men from another universe. Anal balls rotate! For more pleasure, the ring clamps around the penis and testicles.
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Rubber testicle sac with penis ring. Experience higher pleasure possibilities with a tight sleeve.
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The ultimate aid to stronger, firmer and greater pleasure. For both! This is a tight penis and testicle sleeve.
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19,80 €
A forked paddle will give you a slightly different feel than regular paddles. A spanking you'll both enjoy.
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If the classic spanking isn't enough. The surface is roped for more intense spanking.
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One spanking and he'll have a decal, just the way I like it... HOE! An ass spanking to show your love.
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Softer on one side and a little harder on the other. An ass spanking to show your love.
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Let yourself be seduced by your wild fantasies. Quality leather collar with bdsm leash. Inspired by the seductiveness of red wine.
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39,80 €
Elegant gadget: the heart-shaped riding crop for bdsm. Made of high quality leather. Inspired by the seductiveness of red wine.
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71,80 €
Make sure your sub stays handcuffed. Quality leather handcuffs. Inspired by the seductiveness of red wine.
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63,80 €
Let yourself be seduced by your wild fantasies. Quality leather collar with bdsm leash. Inspired by the seductiveness of red wine.
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39,80 €
Treat yourself to the cherry on top for dominant play: the leather gag with silicone ball. Inspired by the seductiveness of red wine.
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159,80 €
The spanking will be worth it! Luxury rose-themed BDSM Kinbaku Ukiyo-e collection.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.
