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BDSM toys for men
for lesbians

BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.

BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.

Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.

What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?

Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:

  • CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.

  • Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.

  • Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.

  • Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.

  • Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.

  • Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.

  • Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.

Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment

When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.

Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.

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INTOYOU Neoprene Dog Mask (Red / Black), fetish dog mask
  • 5
In stock
51,80 €

Fetish dog head mask. Made of very comfortable neoprene. The surface is smooth in a semi-matte jacket. One size universal size. Detachable nose. Dog mask with ears and snout.

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63,80 €

Strong metal construction, firm grip of 4 handcuffs. An unforgettable sexy experience with the INTOYOU stretch rod. Up to 4 attached handcuffs can be attached to the metal rod via staples.

In stock
27,80 €

Enjoy the experience with a sexy stretch rod. Fetish Addict Spreader Bar with fixed handcuffs. Solid fiberglass core with 4 comfortable straps. Pleasant soft surface and quality Velcro!

Cinderella Adjustable Harness No. Seven
  • 5
In stock
11,80 €

An attractive fashion accessory for your outfit. Suitable for everyday wear. Women's bondage harness around the neck. Sensual strips of polyester. One size fits all.

In stock
15,80 €

An attractive fashion accessory for your outfit. Suitable for everyday wear. Women's bondage harness around the neck. Sensual strips of polyester. One size fits all.

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19,80 €

An attractive fashion accessory for your outfit. Suitable for everyday wear. Women's bondage harness around the neck. Sensual strips of polyester. One size fits all.

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7,80 €

An attractive fashion accessory for your outfit. Suitable for everyday wear. Women's bondage harness around the neck. Sensual strips of polyester. One size fits all.

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9,96 €

An attractive fashion accessory for your outfit. Suitable for everyday wear. Women's bondage harness around the neck. Sensual strips of polyester. One size fits all.

In stock
11,80 €

Black leatherette handcuffs with quality metal buckles. Handcuffs are robust and strong. Tightening tightness adjustment. Experience passionate moments of excitement to the fullest with Fetish Addict handcuffs.

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39,80 €

Giorgia full body bondage. Quality body around the neck, across the chest and hips towards the crotch. Material in combination with metal elements. Vegan leather is environmentally friendly.

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39,80 €

Get bound to Allesia's full-body bondage. Full Body Bondage to immobilize hands. Solid material in combination with metal elements. Vegan leather is environmentally friendly.

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23,80 €

Attractive breasts bondage Diannia. Women's bondage set with attachment around the neck. Solid material in combination with metal elements. Vegan leather is environmentally friendly.

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3,80 €

Delicate shimmering feather with wand. Playful treatment and pleasant feelings of intimate excitement. Twilight length 28 cm. A pleasant feeling around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion and arousing the right atmosphere.

Boss Series Feather Tickler (Red)
  • 5
In stock
3,80 €

Delicate shimmering feather with wand. Playful treatment and pleasant feelings of intimate excitement. Twilight length 28 cm. A pleasant feeling around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion and arousing the right atmosphere.

Boss Series Feather Tickler (Pink)
  • 4.5
In stock
3,80 €

Delicate shimmering feather with wand. Playful treatment and pleasant feelings of intimate excitement. Twilight length 28 cm. A pleasant feeling around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion and arousing the right atmosphere.

In stock
51,80 €

Fetish dog head mask. Made of very comfortable neoprene. The surface is smooth in a semi-matte jacket. One size universal size. Detachable nose. Dog mask with ears and snout.

In stock
15,80 €

Leatherette butt slap in a luxurious design. From the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM collection. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun.

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19,80 €

Leatherette butt slap in a luxurious design. From the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM collection. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun.

TABOOM Bondage In Luxury Large Whip (Red)
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In stock
19,80 €

Whip total length of 47 cm. They hold great and whip even better. From the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM collection. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun.

In stock
15,80 €

Smaller whip that just fit in the hand. From the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM collection. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun.

In stock
23,80 €

Luxury tying cross Hogtie. Great with a set of TABOOM handcuffs. From the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM collection. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun.

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15,80 €

With this mask you will experience true darkness. From the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM collection. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun. Perfect BDSM enjoyment.

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27,80 €

Combination of collar and leash in one package. From the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM collection. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun. Perfect BDSM enjoyment.

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15,80 €

Discover your kinky me! Combine a beautiful leash with a sexy collar. From the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM collection. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun. Perfect BDSM enjoyment.

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43,80 €

Bondage set of wrist and thigh handcuffs. From the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM collection. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun. Perfect BDSM enjoyment.

TABOOM Bondage In Luxury D-Ring Collar and Wrist Cuffs (Red)
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35,80 €

D-Ring Collar Deluxe + Wrist Cuffs set. From the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury by TABOOM collection. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun. Perfect BDSM enjoyment.

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17,96 €

Seductive collar with a spice ring foreplay. Choker from the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury collection by TABOOM. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun. Perfect BDSM enjoyment.

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23,80 €

Tease and please ... Handcuffs from the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury collection by TABOOM. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun. Perfect BDSM enjoyment.

TABOOM Bondage In Luxury Wrist Cuffs (Red)
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In stock
23,80 €

Tease and please ... Handcuffs from the tasteful, elegant Bondage In Luxury collection by TABOOM. Made of high quality environmentally friendly material. Sexy accessory for hot fun. Perfect BDSM enjoyment.

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FAQ for BDSM toys for men

  • What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?

    CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.

  • How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?

    BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.

  • What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?

    A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.

  • What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?

    Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.

  • How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?

    Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.

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