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BDSM toys for men
for lesbians
BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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The metal handcuffs with RALK mechanism can create an authentic handcuffing feeling, while weighing less than the police version and having a hidden lock for instant release.
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The metal handcuffs with RALK mechanism can create an authentic handcuffing feeling, while weighing less than the police version and having a hidden lock for instant release.
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11,80 €
The metal handcuffs with RALK mechanism can create an authentic handcuffing feeling, while weighing less than the police version and having a hidden lock for instant release.
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11,80 €
The metal handcuffs with RALK mechanism can create an authentic handcuffing feeling, while weighing less than the police version and having a hidden lock for instant release.
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100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.
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100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.
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100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.
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100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.
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100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.
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100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.
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11,80 €
100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.
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This ring gag with its sophisticated strap system ensures uncompromising fixation, avoids unnecessary words and leaves you with an unhindered approach to the action.
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BDSM is not about pain, but about trust and intimacy. With the right tool, you will discover that control can be the most sensual form of intimacy.
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Made for passion, designed for durability. Durable polypropylene and chrome metal parts ensure that your set can withstand even the most intense games.
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FETISH - Furry Cuffs: The perfect gift for anyone who wants to enrich their intimate life. Thanks to the gradual tightening, it adapts to every wrist.
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The metal handcuffs with RALK mechanism can create an authentic handcuffing feeling, while weighing less than the police version and having a hidden lock for instant release.
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Imagination has no limits. The Bad Kitty Heart Mini Crop is small enough to fit in any bag but powerful enough for your wildest dreams.
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Quality material and perfect fit. A mask that guarantees comfort even when worn for a long time.
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Our mask is like a second skin. It adapts to any head shape and is incredibly comfortable thanks to 92% polyester and 8% spandex.
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Style and comfort can go hand in hand. The Bad Kitty Cat mask proves it. The gently roughened surface and flexible design make it the perfect choice for any occasion.
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With the Black Faux Leather Flogg you will discover how softness and intensity can create the perfect balance in your intimate moments.
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Beginners are often looking for the perfect tool - something that forgives mistakes but offers room to grow. Soft fringe and a solid handle are just the right place to start.
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Safety and comfort can go hand in hand. Our polyamide, ABS and metal products are designed to provide maximum comfort and longevity.
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Our soft velvet mask allows you to explore new levels of pleasure. Close your eyes and let yourself be carried away into a world of intense experiences.
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Safety and comfort are key. Our breathing hole gags do both.
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Gentle on the skin, uncompromising to boredom - discover your favourite handcuffs that guarantee completely safe and relaxed fun thanks to their soft cover and quick release even without a key.
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Every element of this set is designed with comfort and safety in mind. With this set, every touch will be a story of passion and excitement.
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Looking for a way to take your Shibari skills to the next level? Our 10.5 meter rope is ideal for both beginners and experts.
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How important is quality to you when it comes to intimate toys? Our handcuffs made of premium steel guarantee long life and durability.
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Discover new dimensions of passion! This set is perfect for those who want to explore the world of bondage and SM. Metal handcuffs, a blindfold and a whip will open the door to unexpected experiences.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.
