BDSM toys for men
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BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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Sugar cuffs on elastic rubber Spencer & Fleetwood Candy Cuffs. Total weight 43 grams. Gentle licking of sweet candies, hot overture and finally intense sex! Candies are tougher - it's hard to break down, so they last longer.
You2Toys Bondage Board BDSM Bonding Board with soft padding. Set of pads and sex toys - handcuffs, collar, gag, whip and more. Dimensions 120 x 60 cm. Weight 7.1 kg. Strong attachment and absolute helplessness. Everything in the hands of your master.
Robust black cuffs with metal strap and adjustable length Darkness Handcuffs with Fur and Padlock. A comfortable metal buckle ensures a comfortable grip. Made of artificial leather. Hand sewn. Experience passionate moments of excitement to the full.
Robust black handcuffs with metal strap and adjustable length Darkness Wrist Handcuffs Black. A comfortable metal buckle ensures a comfortable grip. Made of artificial leather. Hand sewn. Experience passionate moments of excitement to the full.
Each feather is unique. The wand with a feather measures a full 42 cm. Feather tickling is a popular activity among people. Pleasant feeling of passing a small pass around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion.
Each feather is unique. The wand with a feather measures a full 42 cm. Feather tickling is a popular activity among people. Pleasant feeling of passing a small pass around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion.
Each feather is unique. The wand with a feather measures a full 42 cm. Feather tickling is a popular activity among people. Pleasant feeling of passing a small pass around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion.
Discover the true beauty of the art of tying techniques with the Darkness SHIBARI Linen Rope. The bondage rope is made of purely natural materials. Unique texture specific to this type of rope. Total length 10 meters.
Abstinence leads to a higher and more intense form of pleasure and excitement. Lock your can in the Lock-a-Willy chastity belt and let your burst of excitement overflow. Silicone cage is hygienic, suitable for long wearing. Included 3 ring diameters.
Teach your dog to listen properly! The Fetish Collection Dog Mask only needs a leash and you can start going for walks. Universal size (S-L). The surface imitates leather. With a zipper for comfortable breathing. Soft ear.
Black cat mask for petplay (roleplay) fetish games Bad Kitty Cat Mask Rhinestones. Set with several sparkling stones. Fastening with a fixed buckle at the back of the head. Soft and comfortable material. Tickling games can be spiced up with an anal t
Two larger pegs create a loop between your penis and anus through which the golden liquid flows. Both pins are made of high-quality stainless steel. A 62 cm long silicone tube is stretched between the two pegs.
Fetish Submissive BED BINDING SET contains two pieces of belts and four pieces of handcuffs. The belts have staples at the ends. The handcuffs can be adjusted to a length from 24 cm to up to 36 cm. They are made of vegan leather.
Fetish Submissive BED BINDING SET WITH RINGS contains two pieces of belts and four pieces of handcuffs. The belts have adjustable rings on them. The handcuffs can be adjusted to a length from 24 cm to up to 36 cm. They are made of vegan leather.
Bondage set Fetish Submissive DOMINATION SET is an ideal choice for lovers of the missionary position. It has a padded neck band. Man-made fiber skeleton. Ankle and wrist cuffs. Length adjustable. Vegan leather.
Collar with handcuffs perfect for fans of hard games Fetish Submissive COLLAR AND HANDCUFFS. The collar is 50 cm long and 5.5 cm high. The handcuffs are attached to the collar through metal chains. The cuffs are 5.5 cm high with a diameter of 8 cm. V
Collar with handcuffs perfect for fans of hard games Fetish Submissive BOUND NECK TO WRIST RESTRAINTS. The collar is 44 cm long with a height of 5.5 cm. The handcuffs are attached to the collar through metal chains. The cuffs are 5.5 cm high with a d
Eye mask Fetish Submissive EYE MASK Vegan Leather made of vegan leather. Wearing it is surprisingly comfortable and pleasant. The elastic band is wide and holds perfectly on the head. The mask is 20 cm long and 6 cm high. Made of vegan leather in bla
A strong cross ready for intense BDSM play. The fetish submissive BOUND 4-WAY HOGTIE bondage cross is made of high-quality vegan leather and strong steel. It is all in black. The arm length is 13 cm.
FETISH SUBMISSIVE comes up with new ways to bind your beloved counterpart. Fetish Submissive SPREADER BAR - a sophisticated bondage belt together with hand and ankle cuffs will keep you firmly in place.
Another step closer to assuming the position of alpha male. Shiny Men's Thong Black Level Men Vinyl G-String RIO knows how to achieve it. You will shoot your masculinity sky high!
If you're looking for something to take anal pleasure to a whole new level, the Anal Fantasy Elite Collection Ass-Gasm Cock Blocker is the obvious choice. Pleasure at a high level, materials of the highest quality.
Latex diaper pants in clear color for him. Tight fit with short legs and high waist. Made of natural latex.
Latex diaper pants in clear color for him. Tight fit with short legs and high waist. Made of natural latex.
Don't worry about infidelity anymore, the You2Toys Cock Cage silicone chastity belt for men is a great choice to put your mind at ease. It's great for reviving your relationship or roleplay.
It's time for a real beating. But it won't work without proper tools! For all the naughty and for all the sadists, I have the perfect solution in the form of the EasyToys Black Leather Paddle XOXO.
It's time for a real beating. But it won't work without proper tools! For all the naughty and for all the sadists, I have the perfect solution in the form of the EasyToys Black Leather Paddle SLUT.
It's time for a real beating. But it won't work without proper tools! For all the naughty and for all the sadists, I have the perfect solution in the form of the EasyToys Black Leather Paddle BITCH.
Belt bondage consisting of 4 pieces of movement restraints. Tie up your bitch and do whatever you want with her. Choose your location and start experimenting today.
Every moment with the EasyToys Leather Eye Mask will be full of tension and the sensation of every touch will be multiplied several times.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.