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BDSM toys for men
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BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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A quality whip changes the whole atmosphere of the game. Three Tail Tassel Flogger by Devil Sticks - three leather strands, 76 cm of elegance in black and red combination. For those who take BDSM seriously.
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From a gentle touch to a powerful swing - all in one tool. The thin, genuine leather head puts you in control of every moment. Whether you're just starting out or have experience.
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Devil Sticks nubuck leather whip - 66 cm of pure sensuality for couples who want to explore new boundaries of intimacy.
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The Crop Polished Grain combines elegant design with practicality – a sturdy handle, genuine leather and controllable impact. Ideal for beginners and advanced players alike.
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Crop Polished Grain combines elegant design with practicality - solid handle, genuine leather, controllable impact. Ideal for first steps and advanced play.
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The Spike Paddle from the Devil Sticks collection combines elegance with intensity - genuine leather, metal spikes and a handle that gives you absolute confidence in every moment of the game.
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The Poly Cricket Paddle in lambskin brings luxury where you don't expect it - to intimate games full of sensuality and control.
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The metal handcuffs with RALK mechanism can create an authentic handcuffing feeling, while weighing less than the police version and having a hidden lock for instant release.
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The metal handcuffs with RALK mechanism can create an authentic handcuffing feeling, while weighing less than the police version and having a hidden lock for instant release.
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11,80 €
The metal handcuffs with RALK mechanism can create an authentic handcuffing feeling, while weighing less than the police version and having a hidden lock for instant release.
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11,80 €
The metal handcuffs with RALK mechanism can create an authentic handcuffing feeling, while weighing less than the police version and having a hidden lock for instant release.
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11,80 €
The metal handcuffs with RALK mechanism can create an authentic handcuffing feeling, while weighing less than the police version and having a hidden lock for instant release.
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19,80 €
This ring gag with its sophisticated strap system ensures uncompromising fixation, avoids unnecessary words and leaves you with an unhindered approach to the action.
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BDSM is not about pain, but about trust and intimacy. With the right tool, you will discover that control can be the most sensual form of intimacy.
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FETISH - Furry Cuffs: The perfect gift for anyone who wants to enrich their intimate life. Thanks to the gradual tightening, it adapts to every wrist.
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The metal handcuffs with RALK mechanism can create an authentic handcuffing feeling, while weighing less than the police version and having a hidden lock for instant release.
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Imagination has no limits. The Bad Kitty Heart Mini Crop is small enough to fit in any bag but powerful enough for your wildest dreams.
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Beginners are often looking for the perfect tool - something that forgives mistakes but offers room to grow. Soft fringe and a solid handle are just the right place to start.
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Safety and comfort are key. Our breathing hole gags do both.
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Gentle on the skin, uncompromising to boredom - discover your favourite handcuffs that guarantee completely safe and relaxed fun thanks to their soft cover and quick release even without a key.
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Every element of this set is designed with comfort and safety in mind. With this set, every touch will be a story of passion and excitement.
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How important is quality to you when it comes to intimate toys? Our handcuffs made of premium steel guarantee long life and durability.
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Handcuffs that adapt to every wrist. Beginner’s Metal Cuffs are designed with comfort and safety in mind.
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Our handcuffs are covered in soft plush to ensure maximum comfort. No more pressure or discomfort.
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Wondering what to gift your partner? Our handcuffs with a removable plush cover are not only practical, but also beautifully designed. An ideal gift for special occasions.
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Wondering what to gift your partner? Our handcuffs with a removable plush cover are not only practical, but also beautifully designed. An ideal gift for special occasions.
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Excitement, but also comfort. Our Plush Handcuffs offer you both. Explore new frontiers in your intimacy with confidence and style.
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Looking for a way to liven up your bedroom games? Discover the power of our Penis Collar, which promises not only an increase in performance, but also an unforgettable visual impression.
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Intense, really intense! A solid spanker with a wooden grip. You will feel every blow on your ass.
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BDSM is not about pain, but about trust and intimacy. With the right tool, you will discover that control can be the most sensual form of intimacy.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.
