BDSM toys for men
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BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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Enjoy the experience with a sexy stretch rod. Fetish Addict Spreader Bar with fixed handcuffs. Solid fiberglass core with 4 comfortable straps. Pleasant soft surface and quality Velcro!
Solid metal penis cage, perfect chastity belt for men. A large metal ring around the testicles prevents the cage from being removed. It is placed on the flaccid penis over the testicles. Hole for urination, can be worn for a long time.
The days of your sexual freedom are numbered. Chastity belt with the possibility of electrical stimulation (Requires external source). It effectively prevents an erection. Set with locks. Solid quality workmanship with adjustable size.
The days of your sexual freedom are numbered. Chastity belt with the possibility of electrical stimulation (Requires external source). It effectively prevents an erection. Set with locks. Solid quality workmanship with adjustable size.
All-metal urethral probe from the Mystim workshop. The beautifully polished surface in combination with electrical stimulation is perfect. Diameter 6 mm. Length 15 cm. Electrical stimulation connection (Requires external source).
A few beats on the bare will manage to increase discipline! The rattan whip is perfect for re-education. The whip is a 75 cm long rattan twig covered with a thin layer of PVC. It whips hard, bites even harder.
LOCKDOWN penis cage made of high quality ABS plastic and metal. It effectively prevents you from getting an erection. The black glossy design is elegant. The set includes several rings, a metal lock with keys and more. Luxury packaging.
Do you need to revive a slowly declining love affair? Just untie yourself and bring a little variation to everyday sex. A 9-piece set to spice up sex with a little light BDSM and other toys. GRAY BOX offers something for her, for him and for both!
Metal handcuffs with faux fur. An important tool for lovers of harsh treatment. Contain set of keys. Total length 30 cm. Handcuff diameter max 7 cm. The plush is soft and pleasant to the touch. In any situation, the handcuffs will be comfortable.
7-piece Bad Kitty Restraint Set Bonding Set. Ideal starter pack to the world of BDSM, bondage and fetish for newbies. Length adjustable. Handcuffs, mask, swatters, collar, gag. Imitation leather.
Stimulation wheel in silver Sinner Gear Pinwheel 1-Wheel Silver. Total length including grip is 17 cm. Made of high quality stainless steel (nickel-free). A firm grip that does not slip and holds naturally. Very sharp spikes.
You2Toys Bondage Board BDSM Bonding Board with soft padding. Set of pads and sex toys - handcuffs, collar, gag, whip and more. Dimensions 120 x 60 cm. Weight 7.1 kg. Strong attachment and absolute helplessness. Everything in the hands of your master.
Two larger pegs create a loop between your penis and anus through which the golden liquid flows. Both pins are made of high-quality stainless steel. A 62 cm long silicone tube is stretched between the two pegs.
Share beautiful moments with your partner with the pink BDSM set EasyToys Secret Pleasure Chest Pink. A 10-piece set full of toys waiting to turn your nights into hot games full of excitement.
Share beautiful moments with your partner with the EasyToys Secret Pleasure Chest Black BDSM set. A 10-piece set full of toys waiting to turn your nights into hot games full of excitement.
It's time for a real beating. But it won't work without proper tools! For all the naughty and for all the sadists, I have the perfect solution in the form of the EasyToys Black Leather Paddle XOXO.
It's time for a real beating. But it won't work without proper tools! For all the naughty and for all the sadists, I have the perfect solution in the form of the EasyToys Black Leather Paddle SLUT.
It's time for a real beating. But it won't work without proper tools! For all the naughty and for all the sadists, I have the perfect solution in the form of the EasyToys Black Leather Paddle BITCH.
High-quality Devil Sticks HAND CROP whip with genuine leather whip. The total length of 66 cm will please both women and men with its strength. The strong braided handle provides a good grip and does not slip. Gain dominance.
High-quality Devil Sticks HAND CROP whip with genuine leather whip. The total length of 66 cm will please both women and men with its strength. The strong braided handle provides a good grip and does not slip. Gain dominance.
Erection ring and testicle stretcher in one. Fantasy C-Ringz Cock Pipe with Ball Stretcher is super elastic and fits everyone. Made of phthalate-free TPR. Rear ring 35mm, front ring 32mm, bottom ring 30mm. Testicular stretcher length 2.5 cm.
This black cock cage will protect your manhood like no other erotic device! The ManCage chastity belt is an excellent erotic toy for BDSM practitioners. Set of keys.
Leather collar Bijoux Pour Toi Collar Metal Ring BDSM. A beautiful design that will stand out in your collection. Get this nice and practical collar for your erotic games! Be a naughty kitty, but expect your master to tame you quickly!
EasyToys Long Flogger With Metal Grip with faux leather fringes. The whip is 45 cm long. The metal handle fits perfectly in the hand and does not slip. Faux leather tassels ensure a painful and satisfying experience. A must-have toy for all BDSM enth
EasyToys Flogger With Metal Grip Whip with faux leather fringes. The whip is 38 cm long. The metal handle fits perfectly in the hand and does not slip. Faux leather tassels ensure a painful and satisfying experience. A must-have toy for all BDSM enth
Luxurious appearance and durability in one. The chain leash made of shiny silver metal is not only practical, but also elegant. Length 78 cm with practical snap hook and hand loop.
With adjustable buckles and a removable chain, Bad Kitty Handcuffs offer comfort and safety. The circumference from 17 to 27 cm guarantees that they will fit almost everyone.
A unique combination of glans ring and dilator in one product. Experience intense sensations from both functions at the same time. The purple ring encircles the glans, the silver dilator is gently inserted into the urethra.
"Excitement is the spice of life." With the feather pom pom wand, you can explore the finer side of erotic games. Being tickled with a feather can be incredibly exciting. Try it and discover new levels of pleasure.
A black and red classic that never disappoints - the elegance of Devil Sticks in a form you can feel on your skin and in your mind.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.