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BDSM toys for men
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BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.
BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.
Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.
What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?
Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:
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CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.
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Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.
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Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.
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Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.
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Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.
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Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.
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Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.
Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment
When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.
Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.
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Teach your dog to listen properly! The Fetish Collection Dog Mask only needs a leash and you can start going for walks. Universal size (S-L). The surface imitates leather. With a zipper for comfortable breathing. Soft ear.
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Black cat mask for petplay (roleplay) fetish games Bad Kitty Cat Mask Rhinestones. Set with several sparkling stones. Fastening with a fixed buckle at the back of the head. Soft and comfortable material. Tickling games can be spiced up with an anal t
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The new item is the stylish Fetish Boss Series Studs Collar with sharp spikes. Length 36 - 42 cm. Height 2 cm. You will feel a firm imitation of leather on your neck. It has a loop in the front for catching the leash. Light bondage, roleplay, petplay
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The new item is the stylish Fetish Boss Series Collar Silver Crystals with sparkling stones. Length 36 - 42 cm. Height 3 cm. On your neck you will feel the firm imitation leather, In the front it has a loop for catching the leash. Light bondage, role
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The new item is the stylish Fetish Boss Series Collar Golden Crystals with sparkling stones. Length 36 - 42 cm. Height 3 cm. On your neck you will feel the firm imitation leather, In the front it has a loop for catching the leash. Light bondage, role
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The new item is the stylish Fetish Boss Series Collar Silver Crystals with sparkling stones. Length 36 - 42 cm. Height 2 cm. On your neck you will feel the firm imitation leather, In the front it has a loop for catching the leash. Light bondage, role
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The new item is the stylish Fetish Boss Series Collar Golden Crystals with sparkling stones. Length 36 - 42 cm. Height 2 cm. On your neck you will feel the firm imitation leather, In the front it has a loop for catching the leash. Light bondage, role
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Bijoux Pour Toi Collar Slave leather collar. A beautiful design that will stand out in your collection. Get this nice and practical collar for your erotic games! Be a naughty kitty, but expect your master to tame you quickly!
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Bijoux Pour Toi Collar Ropes leather collar. A beautiful design that will stand out in your collection. Get this nice and practical collar for your erotic games! Be a naughty kitty, but expect your master to tame you quickly!
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Bijoux Pour Toi Collar Heart Padlock leather collar. A beautiful design that will stand out in your collection. Get this nice and practical collar for your erotic games! Be a naughty kitty, but expect your master to tame you quickly!
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Bijoux Pour Toi Collar Heart Padlock leather collar. A beautiful design that will stand out in your collection. Get this nice and practical collar for your erotic games! Be a naughty kitty, but expect your master to tame you quickly!
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Bijoux Pour Toi Collar Heart Diamonds leather collar. A beautiful design that will stand out in your collection. Get this nice and practical collar for your erotic games! Be a naughty kitty, but expect your master to tame you quickly!
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Bijoux Pour Toi Collar Heart leather collar. A beautiful design that will stand out in your collection. Get this nice and practical collar for your erotic games! Be a naughty kitty, but expect your master to tame you quickly!
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Leather collar Bijoux Pour Toi Collar Metal Ring BDSM. A beautiful design that will stand out in your collection. Get this nice and practical collar for your erotic games! Be a naughty kitty, but expect your master to tame you quickly!
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Leather collar Bijoux Pour Toi Collar Metal Ring BDSM. A beautiful design that will stand out in your collection. Get this nice and practical collar for your erotic games! Be a naughty kitty, but expect your master to tame you quickly!
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Leather collar Bijoux Pour Toi Collar Metal Ring BDSM. A beautiful design that will stand out in your collection. Get this nice and practical collar for your erotic games! Be a naughty kitty, but expect your master to tame you quickly!
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Leather collar Bijoux Pour Toi Collar Metal Ring Fetish. A beautiful design that will stand out in your collection. Get this nice and practical collar for your erotic games! Be a naughty kitty, but expect your master to tame you quickly!
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He tames every wild woman. The solid Bad Kitty Neck Shackle in imitation leather is robust and certainly will not disappoint the demanding lovers of firm grip around the neck. Length 45 cm. Width 2,5 cm. Pleasant material. Suitable for role play.
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Taking absolute control over your partner has never been easier. Silence over gold takes on a new meaning. Explore the boundaries of dominance and submissiveness with maximum comfort.
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Want to feel special at your next party? The Cottelli Embroidered Mask is the right accessory. Unique design and maximum comfort. Try it and experience the feeling of mysterious elegance.
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Want to feel special at your next party? The Cottelli Embroidered Mask is the right accessory. Unique design and maximum comfort. Try it and experience the feeling of mysterious elegance.
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Elegance is when external beauty is a reflection of internal harmony. Cottelli Lace Mask with fine lace will add a touch of mystery and elegance to your look. Add a little luxury to your life.
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Style and comfort can go hand in hand. The Bad Kitty Cat mask proves it. The gently roughened surface and flexible design make it the perfect choice for any occasion.
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Gentle on the skin, uncompromising to boredom - discover your favourite handcuffs that guarantee completely safe and relaxed fun thanks to their soft cover and quick release even without a key.
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Did you know that the anatomical shape of our mask ensures maximum comfort? It adapts to every contour of your face.
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Do you want to experience something new? Try out what it's like when your partner can't touch you? Tease him and be in a dominant position? Then these plush handcuffs are ideal for you. They don't press and yet serve their purpose. They are equipped...
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Do you want to experience something new? Try out what it's like when your partner can't touch you? Tease him and be in a dominant position? Then these plush handcuffs are ideal for you. They don't press and yet serve their purpose. They are equipped...
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Do you want to experience something new? Try out what it's like when your partner can't touch you? Tease him and be in a dominant position? Then these plush handcuffs are ideal for you. They don't press and yet serve their purpose. They are equipped...
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Wondering what to gift your partner? Our handcuffs with a removable plush cover are not only practical, but also beautifully designed. An ideal gift for special occasions.
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Wondering what to gift your partner? Our handcuffs with a removable plush cover are not only practical, but also beautifully designed. An ideal gift for special occasions.
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FAQ for BDSM toys for men
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What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?
CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.
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How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?
BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.
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What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?
A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.
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What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?
Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.
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How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?
Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.
