BDSM aids for women in stock
BDSM accessories for women include a wide range of erotic tools, specialized erotic instruments, accessories, and apparel designed for bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadism, and masochism practices. They include leather and textile restraints, whips, gags, nipple clamps, vaginal and anal stimulators, harnesses, blindfolds, as well as advanced restraint systems.
They are used for the safe exploration of power, control, pleasure, and pain with respect to female anatomy and psychology, for sensory stimulation, power exchange, and the safe exploration of intimate boundaries, while emphasizing consent and the mutual trust of partners.
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Bandages around the neck and tummy Bad Kitty Neck Restraint with Handcuffs. Each part is adjustable in length. Comfortable but firm grip. The surface imitates the skin. Black finish. Each part is thoroughly stitched with thread.
Elegance is when external beauty is a reflection of internal harmony. Cottelli Lace Mask with fine lace will add a touch of mystery and elegance to your look. Add a little luxury to your life.
100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.
100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.
Don't be afraid to express your personality to the fullest. Cottelli C344 is not only about the courage to wear something unique, but about discovering new dimensions of your sex life.
Get ready for an evening full of style and comfort! Our belt cuffs are the perfect accessory for any occasion. It adapts to every figure and ensures an unrepeatable experience.
7 toys not only for lovers. Give a piece of the world of sex in a playful gift package. Let's play!
It sparks, pops loudly and pinches nicely. An electric rod to punish your naughty slave. Just choose where you put this sparking toy.
Nipple clamps connected by a short chain. They work like a beautiful intimate piece of jewelry. The total length of the clamps, including the chain, is 40 cm. Made of solid metal. Suitable for beginners in BDSM.
Super kinky handcuffs from the INTOYOU BDSM LINE series. Pleasant, tasteful ... Shiny nylon is complemented by faux fur. The handcuffs are closed with Velcro. They are size adjustable. Both handcuffs are connected by metal buckles.
Solid collar with Fetish Submissive leash. Made of vegan leather. The black, robust design of the collar evokes respect. Adjustable length. Included leash on a long steel chain.
100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.
When fashion becomes an adventure. Special penis and testicle sleeve for maximum comfort.
Set of 6 silicone dilators in different sizes and pastel colours for gradual stretching, pelvic floor training, and gentle exploration. Ring handles provide safer, easier control for solo or partner use.
Complete 10-piece black BDSM set for couples: flogger, feather tickler, ball gag, blindfold, rope, collar with leash, wrist and ankle cuffs, nipple clamps, and a gift-ready box. Great for beginners and experienced users.
Soft black matte choker with silver heart. 4 cm wide, adjustable 31–42 cm with 3 press studs. 70% polyester, 30% spandex. A comfortable, seductive accessory with a chic finish.
A form of modern seductive art originating in Japan. Open yourself to the beauty of tying.
Bondage set of handcuffs on the wrists and thighs. Handcuffs tastefully imitate real leather. High quality material in elegant red color. Sexy accessory perfect BDSM enjoyment. The set contains 2 handcuffs on the wrists and thighs.
A few beats on the bare will manage to increase discipline! The rattan whip is perfect for re-education. The whip is a 75 cm long rattan twig covered with a thin layer of PVC. It whips hard, bites even harder.
Collar with handcuffs perfect for fans of hard games Fetish Submissive COLLAR AND HANDCUFFS. The collar is 50 cm long and 5.5 cm high. The handcuffs are attached to the collar through metal chains. The cuffs are 5.5 cm high with a diameter of 8 cm. V
Eye mask Fetish Submissive EYE MASK Vegan Leather made of vegan leather. Wearing it is surprisingly comfortable and pleasant. The elastic band is wide and holds perfectly on the head. The mask is 20 cm long and 6 cm high. Made of vegan leather in bla
How often do you experiment with new ways to please your partner? Our little centimeter is the perfect tool for discovering new erotic experiences.
100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.
Fully adjustable nipple clamps with protective covers and long black feathers for teasing stimulation, more comfortable wear and a striking BDSM look.
A black BDSM cane made from beechwood and sheep leather. 60 cm length for confident reach and intensity control—from gentle caresses to sharp stings—ideal for obedience and D/s play.
This collar is designed to increase your playtime, with the option to attach a leash for added excitement. Whether in or out of the bedroom, it's the perfect accessory to complete your look in style.
A beautiful tying set ideal as a gift. 8 toys perfect for newbies. Definitely won't escape your attention.
A set of toys for a harder set. Ideal as a gift or for newcomers. Includes everything to get you into the world of light BDSM. The most used kinky toys for both.
Nice red butt with riding crop. Solid braided core and end of whip made of PU leather. Let yourself be shaken. Be kinky!
Hmmm! Revive your fetish fantasies. A beautiful kinky collar that will make you submit. Plus a leash!
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Shed taboos, discover your power
Imagine the moment when a woman willingly gives up control – and in that very instant discovers her strongest self. BDSM toys for women are not merely accessories, but tools for deep self-discovery and intensely sensual experiences.
We live in an era when bedroom dominance no longer hides underground. The modern woman does not seek escape from reality in BDSM toys, but rather a return to her own essence and absolute control – even in the moment she chooses to surrender it. Research from recent years shows that sensory restriction and power play paradoxically bring profound psychological release from everyday stress.
In daily life, women often carry many roles and responsibilities. BDSM offers a space where those roles can be set aside. Whether you long to be bound in silk restraints, feel the sharp sting of a whip across your thighs, or, on the contrary, hold the whip firmly in your own hand and take complete control – these tools open the door to authentic freedom.
Find inspiration in self-discovery
This category is a gateway to a world where the rules are clearly defined, yet the experiences are boundless. It is not about the blind dictate of pain, but a symphony of sensations. Soft fur-lined cuffs symbolize sweet surrender, while sophisticated leather floggers and gags awaken a raw, primal sensuality. Every touch of skin on skin, every heartbeat in a moment of total surrender, redefines modern sexuality.
Many women describe finding a paradoxical strength precisely in the submissive role: relief from the need to always be strong, decisive, and perfect. When your partner restrains you, covers your eyes, and slowly leads you to the edge of pleasure and tension, all masks disappear. What remains is only pure, raw experience.
Cheap sexy literature is only the surface
Forget the myths of cheap fiction. Today’s fetish is about aesthetics, safety, and exploring the uncharted maps of your own body. Whether you wish to awaken your inner archetypal goddess, gripping the reins with confidence, or simply want to quiet your mind for a moment and let yourself be guided, the right instruments will become an extension of your voice. Embrace your desires without a filter. The truth about human pleasure is this: it is most beautiful when it is free and authentic.
Did you know? According to neurobiological studies, consensual BDSM dynamics activate similar centers in the brain as extreme sports. The released cocktail of endorphins and oxytocin creates the so-called „subspace“ – a state of deep euphoria and connection.
At Erosstar, you will find high-quality and safe toys for beginners and experienced players alike – from soft restraints and gentle whips to elegant leather harnesses, clitoral and nipple clamps, and advanced electrostimulation systems. Everything is designed with an emphasis on comfort, material quality, and discretion.
Because true femininity is not only about tenderness. Sometimes it lies in the courage to say: „Now it’s my turn – whether as the queen or as her obedient slave.“