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You feel his every touch, you enjoy the attention, but you want to return it. But how to touch a man, how to show him affection, what actually turns him on? Let's uncover the secrets of the male body together.
Although we grow up believing that women come from Venus and men from Mars, this does not mean that you cannot draw inspiration from yourself when getting to know the body of your significant other or lover.
Men's erogenous zones are often similar to women's. If his body is a mystery to you, follow yours. As you probably know, often even we ourselves do not know that we like something until we try it. Mutual communication, enthusiasm for learning and naughty experimentation will be your closest helpers.
Some men at first glance seem to be golems, stiff and insensitive to touch, perhaps you will become their magical scheme with your targeted curiosity.
Where to start?
Communicate
As with most activities involving at least two people, you can't do without it. Not everyone can openly communicate their needs and innermost desires. Men in particular tend to have trouble with this.
Building mutual trust is something that will help you open this thirteenth chamber. Listen to him, be open to his desires, and don't judge him for them.
Men take these things personally, and in the worst case scenario, it could damage all the trust you've worked so hard to build. It will take time for him to open up to you. Give him time and don't pressure him. Trust that it will be worth it.
Play with him
If you have more time, you can reliably build the atmosphere through subtle teasing. You can play with him all day long, gradually escalating your efforts and testing what it does to him. Start with subtle touches and gradually work your way up, even to more daring moves.
Experiment
Creating an intimate atmosphere is not only important for women, but also for men. Try, touch, caress and observe his reactions. If there are any, you are on the right track. Ask questions when you feel like you are wandering in a vicious circle. Too many questions can disrupt the exciting tension. He will certainly appreciate your interest and will be happy to help guide you.
Where to with the touch?
Touch is an important part of human relationships. This is doubly true in intimate relationships. Everyone has experienced a time when a simple hug brightened their day.
Touch doesn't always have to be arousing, it can just be satisfyingly pleasant. Moreover, a man doesn't have just one erogenous zone: his penis. There are many more.
The neck is a very interesting place. It is usually very sensitive, but that does not mean that everyone has to appreciate the touch on the neck. In nature, the neck is considered a very delicate zone, due to the supply of blood and oxygen to the brain. However, neck massages are generally perceived as a very pleasant thing across the sexes.
You can try anything from light touches of the lips, kisses, or bites. You will see that something will interest him.
Earlobes are very sensitive, have many nerve endings and for many men they can be a nice addition to your arsenal of touches.
A light massage with the pads of your fingers, kisses or a light breath on the ears can be very arousing. Whisper something exciting to him and see what it awakens in him.
Back, arms, chest, feet, the whole body. An often neglected part is the body itself.
A quick touch or a light scratch on the back will pleasantly get the energy flowing, help you set the mood, and at the same time, it is not extremely arousing, so you can build the excitement gradually. Test how he reacts when you run your nails along his thigh. Or gently explore him from head to toe with your fingertips.
Nipples: Although they are not as sensitive as women's, kissing, biting, and sucking can be pleasurable for some men. Be careful, though, as some men find nipples uncomfortable. Start exploring them gently and ask if this is something he enjoys.
The testicles are, without a doubt, a very sensitive area and it is necessary to approach them as such. You can lightly stroke them, caress them with your lips or tongue. However, caution is in order, as pain from this area can ruin the magic of the moment. On the contrary, if handled correctly, it will definitely deepen the experience.
Prostate massage can be not only pleasant, but also healthy. What is it good for and how to do it, you can find out in our article.
As they say, we are all unique. Everyone has different preferences. Some guys can't feel nipple stimulation even if someone puts a thick paper clip on them, but a quick kiss on the nape of their neck sends an electric shock through them. And that's the beauty of shared discovery.
What do men desire?
One of the most important things to keep in mind is expressing interest. In fact, one could say that one of the most important erogenous zones is the brain.
When a man senses effort and sincere interest from you, he is mostly yours. Men also crave attention, especially to be wanted by someone. Touches out of obligation are not nearly as sweet as sincere ones.
Do you ever start on your own or is he usually the main initiator? Play around, don't leave it up to him.
You can start with something ordinary that every human being craves: touch - massage. You can try any type. Massages require your hands, palms, and finger strength.
If you run out of strength too quickly, get helpers. There are plenty of tools and fragrant emulsions or oils on the market. Massaging is a perfect way to set the mood for a romantic evening. Maybe he will reciprocate. And remember, not all massages have to have a happy ending.
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Speaking of happy endings, what pleases every man's soul, not just his soul but also his body, is a blowjob, oral sex or smoking. It is actually the ultimate test of mutual openness.
Communication is perhaps even more important here than in other areas. You will see whether you have managed to talk him into it or not. Either he will lead you on and you will both enjoy it or he will not and it may happen that your cervical spine will take it away.
It is not about sacrificing yourself either, adapt it to your needs. A joint shower or bath can be a great option. Not only will you wash away the taste of the past day from yourself and your partner, but water is a very good partner for creating an atmosphere. Wash each other.
You can also use scents to help. Many people underestimate their sense of smell. This way, you can find a scent that will stimulate arousal in both of you.
If you don't want to ruin your joint budget because of water bills, you can try something sweet, whipped cream, honey, or even make a plate of it.
Don't fall into a stereotype.
A stereotype is like the ultimate turn-off, a forbidden word and a point where passions start to freeze and decline. That's why it's a good idea to have some ideas in stock. Actually, it doesn't have to be anything crazy. Just try some small variations, with which you and your partner won't run out of breath unnecessarily too soon.
An old tried and tested classic is a change of location, whether for a light provocation or something more daring. Such a little trick can work wonders. Various rooms in the home are available, as well as outdoor spaces. For the more hardened, there are walks in nature. They are guaranteed to take on a whole new dimension and depth. We have a whole article dedicated to this topic.
Games and toys are definitely perfect helpers that you are not afraid to include in your interaction. Maybe this will help you both relax and reduce your nervousness. There are also countless games for two or more people that are a more spicy variation on Activity. However, it is important to go through them and possibly eliminate tasks for which the time is simply not right yet.
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Experiment, learn, observe and ask questions
We are all different, we like something different, so don't be afraid to experiment. People are not snowflakes that will fall apart after a fleeting touch or breath. Get to know your partner, watch how they react to your touches and ideas. And most importantly, don't forget about communication, discuss it together, talk to each other.
You will see that as mutual trust gradually builds, your fears will melt away. When you get to know each other better and open up to each other, the mutual enjoyment will multiply.
