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It is said that 80% of women need external stimulation to achieve an unforgettable orgasm. This is the real challenge for fingers, tongue or time to use sex tools.
The best tool for female orgasm? Your penis and your fingers stand next to each other on the podium. Such a powerful tool! We will teach you how to navigate perfectly in the most exciting part of a woman's body and turn an ordinary foreplay into wild gradational pleasure in an instant.
Before you start fingering
Fingers are a very dexterous and handy part of the body. The tips of your fingers are very sensitive, and thanks to this, you know exactly what is happening under your fingers, how the excitement increases, and often what you feel under your fingers will automatically lead you to even better places. Nature is wise and has prepared an intuitive procedure for curious men's fingers.
Before you start, make sure you don't have sharp or long nails.
Your loved one will definitely appreciate it, because sometimes just a hard bump on the nail or a misaligned nail is all it takes to cause an injury. Maintain hygiene, your hands should be perfectly clean.
Even nails trimmed in this way can be too sharp
For the perfect pleasure of fingering, it is most important to know the anatomy of this area. The vulva includes pubic hair, the inner labia, and the outer labia. Next, the clitoris, the opening to the urethra, the vaginal opening and the area just below the perineum. All these places are very sensitive and react to almost every touch. Each of these places makes a woman feel differently. Being able to move your fingers sensitively and expertly here means that you are playing a perfect orchestra of pleasure.
Find out if your loved one has any preferences:
- Does one area bring her more satisfaction than another?
- Does she not like it when you touch her in certain places?
Discovering and finding out this information will surely be exciting too!
The process of safe and irresistible fingering
Although sometimes velvety dryness can be exciting, it also gives a better impression of spontaneous arousal when a woman starts to get wet, so it's a good idea to have lube ready just in case. The slightly slippery feeling is one of those that turn women on one hundred percent.
Lubricating gels will increase your partner's experience. You can try water-based lubricating gels or silicone lubricating gels.
WaterGlide Anal 300 ml
CalExotics Lube Tube 2pcs (Transparent), syringe lube applicator
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Lona Natural gel 130ml
EasyGlide Anal Lubricant 150 ml, lubricating gel for anal sex
Glide 4 you 100ml
Waterbased lubricating gel EasyGlide Lubricant 150 ml
Just Glide Performance (50 ml), hybrid lubricating gel for intimate use
Massage gel JoyDivision WARMUP Mango+Passion fruit 150 ml
Lubricating gel Lona Anal 130 ml - water-based
Just Glide Waterbased 1000 ml
Creating the right atmosphere
Everything has its perfect time and these intimate games require everything to be perfect. Enough privacy, pleasant music, romantic lighting. Above all, the feeling that this is a perfectly intimate and mutual experience. And it doesn't really matter if you have a quickie somewhere very secretive, as long as it excites both of you, or if it's a ritual under the covers before bed.
Cuddling the labia as a start
If you want to really turn your lover on, don't start fingering right at the most sensitive area. Do not rush in or use a lot of pressure. Let the peach bloom and get wet, and it will let you go further and deeper on its own. Start by stroking and massaging the outer labia, exploring their softness, softness and pliability. They too will begin to increase due to excitement and will be fuller, firmer.
Use an up and down and back motion and gradually approach the clitoris after a while. This foreplay will get more blood to the genitals, making the subsequent stimulation all the more intense. And the clitoris will show itself at this moment. A small, hard lump between the lips, the more excited a woman is, the bigger it gets. However, each woman has a different size, some like an orange seed, others like a nice olive. Its stiffness is important. And also the sensitivity, it really hurts when dry, so once you're there, you need to work on the moisture.
Clitoral irritation with fingers
First, just gently touch the clitoris while caressing the labia. Then pause in this magical place, find out if there is moisture, and really start with gentle stimulation.
Use only gentle pressure and a circular motion. Find out if your partner likes it. If you don't feel any major reaction, press gently or speed up the pace. If you move your finger a little lower, there will certainly be enough moisture in the vagina, which you can gently transfer to the clitoris area with your finger.
Pay a lot of attention to this area, it is the most magical part of the female body that literally loves your tongue, but also the irritation of your glans. After all, at that moment you are similar because both the tip of your penis and her clitoris are made of similar tissue. In a woman, the clitoris is the tip of the iceberg, most of it is hidden in the part along the vagina, and it is speculated that the other end is responsible for internal vaginal orgasms, during which the clitoris may be irritated from the opposite side. Normally, the visible part of the clitoris is hidden behind a cap of delicate skin, but it begins to rub off when aroused.
Occasionally return to stroking the labia and then the clitoris again. This will leave your beloved in constant tension, the alternation of these two sensations is extremely exciting, and sometimes it is enough to alternate these two movements a few times and there is an orgasm like from a textbook. To help, you can take a clitoris stimulator - womanizer.
You can also try a different movement than the circular one, but most women prefer that one. In addition, and you may discover this only after a long time, some women have clitoris more sensitive on one side, and less so on the other, this secret knowledge can help you a lot when exploring a woman's vagina.
Womanizer Liberty 2 (Purple), clitoral pulsator
Svakom Pulse Galaxie (Metallic Lilac), sonic stimulator with star projector
Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 2 (Gold), OG clitoral pulsator
Ritual SHUSHU Cerise rechargeable vacuum clitoral stimulator
Ritual SHUSHU Black rechargeable vacuum clitoral stimulator
Satisfyer Pro Penguin Next Generation
Satisfyer Love Breeze (Copper), air pulse clitoral stimulator
Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 2 (Violet), clitoris pulsator
Svakom Pulse Lite Neo (Purple), pulsating clitoral stimulator
Satisfyer Supernova (Rose)
Once you feel, through the wetness and rising desire of your partner, that it is time to advance to an even higher level of stimulation, shift your attention to the vaginal entrance. At this moment, your sweetheart is literally squirming in your arms...
Tips for touching and massaging the peach
Hesitating which move to use? We present you the perfect guide from which you can try everything and be a sex god.
It's all yours in the palm of your hand: At the beginning, but also at the end of the exciting performance, you can use your whole palm to cover the entire peach and gently slide it over. Or making finger waves… Or pulsing…
Inner labia like Cinderella: Probing with a finger or two will be very exciting for every part of the peach, but try it on the inner labia that covers the entrance to the vagina. They are often neglected, yet they are so sensitive. You can also press them lightly with the tips of your fingers or rub them, caress them up and down.
How to finger the vagina
You can start with circular movements at the vaginal entrance, thanks to which the muscles will relax properly and it will arouse the desire for penetration. Insert your finger very gently into that hot, wet spot.
Repeat this process a few times, you may feel the place loosen, expand and lengthen more and more, then leave your finger inside. Each part of the vagina is sensitive differently and reacts to different force of pressure and stroking. In general, the front and back of the vagina are the most sensitive, but there is also one big gem in the middle. He is waiting for your cat, or right now, for your nimble finger.
G spot and its relatives
Feel the G-spot on the front side of the vagina, i.e. towards the belly, it should be a slightly swollen, spongy, rougher part of the vagina, you can also orient yourself according to your finger, it is usually the length of your second knuckle on the finger, but take it as a guide... try it different pressure and location. You will find it!Then try a gentle movement with your fingertip in a come hither style. You can press on this point, alternate the pressure, pulse it with your fingers or gently stroke it with circular movements.
If your significant other is really passionate, start with rhythmic stimulation. Slide your finger in and out, add speed and find out what pace your partner likes. Maintain the rhythm and depth, and if possible, involve the other hand to stimulate the clitoris.
Use more power at this point.
The vagina has several extremely exciting points, each woman is sensitive to another. In the direction of the butt, towards the coccyx, you can notice a similar reaction, this point is excellently irritated during sex from behind, the sensitive area of the butt is also irritated through the vagina. This can bring with it a so-called whole-body orgasm with a tremor of the whole body, an experience when the woman is literally in another world.
A little vocabulary!
- C-Spot - clitoris
- G-Spot – on the front side of the vagina towards the belly, it has the form of a rough spongy area
- A-Spot - on the back of the vagina towards the coccyx and bottom, rather it is the whole area or the area at the end of the vagina, towards the cervix
Both hands, kisses and clear pleasure
The double stimulation is sure to be a success and will have your significant other moaning and screaming with excitement and pleasure in no time. But you don't have to use only the other hand, but with a skillful touch you can direct your thumb to gently stimulate the clitoris even when your fingers are playing in the vagina.
In addition to the already mentioned full attention and the fact that you are not afraid to show your partner how much you have to do with your own arousal, kissing while stroking the vulva and fingering the vagina is the icing on the cake. In addition, you can find out how much she likes it by kissing, or significantly stimulate passion with deep kisses.
The best positions for fingering
The exciting advantage of fingering is that you can do it almost anywhere and anytime. All you have to do is slip your hand into a woman's panties and let yourself be carried away on a wave of excitement!Best locations? Classic positions lying on your back or sitting, the so-called "sitting on a chair" are probably the most popular. But try something else that will definitely taste different! How about fingering while standing or kneeling. Or when the partner is lying on her stomach, or kneeling on her knees in doggy style?
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Fingering is not a science, but it may take some time and maybe a few failed attempts to get a feel for your partner, but don't let that put you off, it will be worth it once you hit it off. Perhaps the answers to frequently asked questions will help you.
FAQ
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Can the first fingering hurt?
Like any other physical activity, fingering can hurt if it is approached too hrr. Especially if the woman is a virgin, yes, the first fingering can really hurt. All you have to do is warn your partner and a little gentleness and gentleness will guarantee that even the first fingering can be an exciting and pleasurable experience. Always be careful when fingering, because the large number of nerve endings can cause a geyser of excitement, but also a lot of pain. Never penetrate your partner quickly and hastily. Take care of a pleasant foreplay (try to focus on the clitoris first and prepare your partner nicely) and penetrate her gradually.
Before you start fingering more intensively and rhythmically, make sure that your partner likes it and is excited and wet enough. If you can't do it naturally, use a lubricating gel and don't be afraid to try a vibrator, womanizer or finger covers.
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When does fingering make the most sense?
The situations are different. Fingering is a great masturbation practice that does not require any erotic aids. Furthermore, thanks to fingering, a woman can find out what really turns her on and feels good and where her G-spot is. Some women require fingering regularly and prefer it to traditional sex. For others, fingers in the vagina do not mean anything and prefer to satisfy themselves with their tongue or penis. Fingering can also be practiced in situations where sexual intercourse is not possible, for example due to the environment, situation or health reasons.
Communication is important.
Before you start fingering, make sure your partner likes it. If you go about it right, you will experience pleasurable sighs and hot orgasms, which women experience feelings of pleasure in a completely different category than clitoral orgasm. Fingering some women can also lead to wet orgasms, the so-called squirt.
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How to moisten the vagina during fingering?
In order for a woman to enjoy fingering to the maximum, moisturizing is absolutely essential. Some women get wet enough just from the excitement alone, you can help others to make fingering more pleasant for them. Lubricant is always the right choice for moistening the vagina. However, if you don't have it at hand, even saliva will do the job and ensure sufficient moisture for quality fingering.
All you need is ordinary saliva that you apply with your fingers. However, a more inventive way (and preparation for fingering) can be licking, with which you moisten the vagina nicely, excite your partner and then gradually involve your fingers.
If you want to diversify your erotic games, use lubricating gels, which will enhance the experience of fingering even more. Water-based lubricating gels are a more natural way, while silicone lubricating gels dry more slowly and last longer. More experienced explorers of the female body can try cooling, warming or flavored lubricating gels. But be careful not to overdo it with the amount, it may happen that you apply so much gel that your partner can hardly feel your hands. And one more important piece of advice at the end – ordinary water is not a good lubricant.
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Can the clitoris hurt?
Yes, and mainly in two cases. The first is when you stimulate an unprepared clitoris with dry fingers or too strongly. And the second, even more painful situation can occur right after orgasm. At that moment, the clitoris is hypersensitive, irritated and immediately retracts back into its hood. Any further teasing of it is very painful. Try to catch the moment when your partner reached the climax and stop the teasing in time. A painful dot is nothing she wishes for. -
Can sexually transmitted diseases be transmitted by fingering?
In general, the risk is lower than with classic intercourse, but it is certainly not excluded. Fingers stained with saliva, vaginal discharge or semen of infected persons can be a source of infection for some infections: HPV virus, chlamydia and gonorrhea or genital herpes. Therefore, be responsible even with such seemingly innocent sexual activity.
References
- Fingering: What It Is And Why People Do It
- Here are 6 fingering techniques that will give your woman an intense orgasm! | India.com
- How To Touch A Woman & Finger Her Vagina, In 9 Beginner Steps
- Better fingering? | Sense.info
- How to Finger Someone With a Vulva
- How do you finger a woman? What your partner should actually be doing - RSVP Live
- How to finger a girl properly according to disappointed girls
- How To Finger A Girl To Orgasm Like Tessa In After Film
